03-23-2013, 01:13 PM
Great results! I noticed that SM also had the strong effect for me of pushing me out of the house to socialize even though at first I was terrified and full of social anxiety. Now I crave social interaction and energy, and I go stir crazy if I don't go out and at least spend time around other people. But I no longer have the social anxiety that used to make me do the "frightened what ifs" on the way to where I was going.
I'm not great at opening strangers in all situations, but I can now go to any bar I like and walk in comfortably, sit down anywhere, and enjoy myself regardless of whom I talk to - even if I talk to nobody. If I like a place, I simply go back and assimilate. Once you become one of the regulars, people are much easier to talk to, and they'll often approach you. It's much easier to open conversations with people when you realize that conversation is it's own reward, and how enjoyable it is to converse with others, regardless of gender, without an agenda. Just be grateful for the enjoyment you get from having a conversation, and people will really open up once they sense you're not trying to "get something from them".
Walking out the door knowing I am going to enjoy myself regardless of what happens is a very powerful thing. But just walking out that door and going out into public opens so many doors to possibilities for sex it's incredible.
I'm not great at opening strangers in all situations, but I can now go to any bar I like and walk in comfortably, sit down anywhere, and enjoy myself regardless of whom I talk to - even if I talk to nobody. If I like a place, I simply go back and assimilate. Once you become one of the regulars, people are much easier to talk to, and they'll often approach you. It's much easier to open conversations with people when you realize that conversation is it's own reward, and how enjoyable it is to converse with others, regardless of gender, without an agenda. Just be grateful for the enjoyment you get from having a conversation, and people will really open up once they sense you're not trying to "get something from them".
Walking out the door knowing I am going to enjoy myself regardless of what happens is a very powerful thing. But just walking out that door and going out into public opens so many doors to possibilities for sex it's incredible.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!