03-22-2013, 04:15 PM
(03-21-2013, 09:36 PM)Beast10 Wrote: Even Alpha Male program, aren't we always trying to change our personality? instead of just fully owning your personality and just putting it out there like BOOM Here it is, take it or leave it.. Type of attitude.
I feel this is one of challenges with personal development.
Balance of self acceptance vs. self improvement.
Any thoughts? comments on this?
I feel what is important is to finding your personality you have within and polishing it till it becomes rock solid. Now that's alpha.. instead of the one that is always trying to change.
I agree, and I have the same problem myself, but I am starting to see that you have to learn how to interact with women too. For example, you could be unapologeticly boring, but it wouldn't get you laid. Thing is, you need to understand what part of yourself to bring out with women.
I mean, for the longest time I hated what I heard cause people were like "you gotta be funny." or "have fun" and I mistakenly attributed THEIR sense of humor and THEIR idea of fun as what I had to do, which of course was completely unlike myself. Then I understood I had to have MY idea of fun (whatever that may turn out to be) and use MY sense of humor. Doors open for you when you be yourself this way. So in that example, yes, you gotta be laid back and have fun, but only if YOU are the one having the fun.
As for polishing yourself till it becomes rock solid, that's something that has to be done manually. In my opinion, the subs allow you to focus, gain clarity, and get in the right mindset. From there, you can do all the polishing you want, no one's gonna stop you. Think of it like art. Self-improvement is an art form in which you create your masterpiece: YOU. You must make it how YOU want it to be. Make sense?
I must admit, however, I'm not sure the boundaries of these subs. Do they do everything the description says they will, or does it just ALLOW you to achieve those things? It'd be great to know how it works to transform an average guy into an alpha male. I'm not expecting you to give away trade secrets here Shannon, but some know-how would be appreciated.
