When I did SM 1 my life was like that. Still, the women I hung out with wanted to fuck me like crazy and they always wanted me to continue coming back. When I would come back I would decide what is what...should we go out for the night or should we go fuck? They were ok with that. When it came to a relationship, however, things were a bit different. Most of the women thought I wouldn't be a good long-term potential boyfriend (because I was having sex a lot and I was indifferent to a lot of shit), so they would say "we are just having sex". You don't need to make it friends with benefits (call me when you wanna fuck then afterwards I'll leave). I never thought of it that way. I treated them all like a girlfriend but they all just wanted to f- me. There were 2 other girls who were with me, 1 was a stripper and 1 was another girl I never had sex with. They both wanted me, and they both fell for me in hopes of being my girlfriend.
It is more like my relationship with my ex right now. Though we still both like each other and see each other a few times a week we are both still dating other people and not trying to get back together. We are just having fun with each other and sex. We still cuddle, talk, flirt, everything we always did but when it comes to a relationship we both feel it wouldn't work. So if you want them to 'fall in love' with you, it may happen it may not. Depends on the woman. Most likely they are going to fuck you (and want to be around you a lot) until they find the guy that'll give them full attention and love. However, I did SM and I did get into a relationship right at the end of it, so it is 100% possible to do, you just have to be dominate with it and kinda force it upon her, if she thinks that way. lol.
Another note: you're going to be more Brent Smith in this regard. You will be indifferent and not have strong feelings for them. But you will enjoy your time together. You will not have strong feelings because others will be around as well. If they don't pursue you, you won't want to deal with them (in my experience atleast). His whole belief is that relationships are BS, marriage is stupid, and all you were meant to do is be happy alone and fuck lots of women until you get bored of them.
WM is more of a softer side like Zan Perrion. He believes women are all beautiful creatures and feels you should give your love, even if you don't get in return. He believes that socializing with beautiful women is number 1, you should have fun with them and you don't need relationships...but the love you share with a specific girl is the greatest experience (which I believe it can be). He believes more that marriage is achievable after you have dated lots and have gotten your 'perfect' match.
Both of them combined (which is what I plan to do for most of my life) is more of a Cory Skyy, magnetic mindset kinda of guy.
So if you have trouble deciding. I would say watch some videos on these guys and whichever one you feel most connected to, follow upon that path.
Ryan
It is more like my relationship with my ex right now. Though we still both like each other and see each other a few times a week we are both still dating other people and not trying to get back together. We are just having fun with each other and sex. We still cuddle, talk, flirt, everything we always did but when it comes to a relationship we both feel it wouldn't work. So if you want them to 'fall in love' with you, it may happen it may not. Depends on the woman. Most likely they are going to fuck you (and want to be around you a lot) until they find the guy that'll give them full attention and love. However, I did SM and I did get into a relationship right at the end of it, so it is 100% possible to do, you just have to be dominate with it and kinda force it upon her, if she thinks that way. lol.
Another note: you're going to be more Brent Smith in this regard. You will be indifferent and not have strong feelings for them. But you will enjoy your time together. You will not have strong feelings because others will be around as well. If they don't pursue you, you won't want to deal with them (in my experience atleast). His whole belief is that relationships are BS, marriage is stupid, and all you were meant to do is be happy alone and fuck lots of women until you get bored of them.
WM is more of a softer side like Zan Perrion. He believes women are all beautiful creatures and feels you should give your love, even if you don't get in return. He believes that socializing with beautiful women is number 1, you should have fun with them and you don't need relationships...but the love you share with a specific girl is the greatest experience (which I believe it can be). He believes more that marriage is achievable after you have dated lots and have gotten your 'perfect' match.
Both of them combined (which is what I plan to do for most of my life) is more of a Cory Skyy, magnetic mindset kinda of guy.
So if you have trouble deciding. I would say watch some videos on these guys and whichever one you feel most connected to, follow upon that path.
Ryan
