02-06-2013, 06:37 PM
You haven't offended me, i'm just trying to point out the extreme limiting beliefs and baggage you have around this.
Your 'most introverts have..' statement is not true at all, except in your reality. I have had all of those issues myself and I don't have much of a problem anymore. I have no problem sitting in my house for a few weeks working by myself and then going out to socialize when I want to.
Like last night I went and had tea for a friends birthday, had fun even though I wasn't the crazy life of the party and I also got the waitresses number.
It's not only possible for extroverts!
Also think about what Shannon has reported, I believe he is an introvert but is able to go out and socialize confidently.
-Ben
Your 'most introverts have..' statement is not true at all, except in your reality. I have had all of those issues myself and I don't have much of a problem anymore. I have no problem sitting in my house for a few weeks working by myself and then going out to socialize when I want to.
Like last night I went and had tea for a friends birthday, had fun even though I wasn't the crazy life of the party and I also got the waitresses number.
It's not only possible for extroverts!
Also think about what Shannon has reported, I believe he is an introvert but is able to go out and socialize confidently.
-Ben
