Pushing back the ocean is futile. You must either drain it, or move back. That is to say, deal with the cause, not the symptom.
You remind me so much of myself it's scary. When I was younger, I was terrified of everything. I was too scared to learn to drive, too scared to get a job, too scared period. I ended up having my mother take me to a shrink, who basically told me... just get a job.
Real slick, buddy, I knew that. What he didn't help me do was overcome the fear that was keeping me from getting a job and learning to drive. Primarily because he never asked me why I wasn't doing so, or why I was resisting. Duh.
I think maybe he didn't bother with me because there was no pill for fear at the time, and anything but prescribing pills is too much work for them these days in a lot of cases.
Anyway... the similarities are striking. Keep making progress. When you get the chance, try running OGSF or OF for 3-6 months. (I'm hoping you're not already, cause then I'd feel stupid. lol)
You remind me so much of myself it's scary. When I was younger, I was terrified of everything. I was too scared to learn to drive, too scared to get a job, too scared period. I ended up having my mother take me to a shrink, who basically told me... just get a job.
Real slick, buddy, I knew that. What he didn't help me do was overcome the fear that was keeping me from getting a job and learning to drive. Primarily because he never asked me why I wasn't doing so, or why I was resisting. Duh.
I think maybe he didn't bother with me because there was no pill for fear at the time, and anything but prescribing pills is too much work for them these days in a lot of cases.
Anyway... the similarities are striking. Keep making progress. When you get the chance, try running OGSF or OF for 3-6 months. (I'm hoping you're not already, cause then I'd feel stupid. lol)
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
