12-10-2012, 05:43 PM
Let's consider your preconception that it isn't alpha to use subliminals to become more alpha. How does one become more alpha, if not through some form of self improvement and growth? In the case of many who find this program useful, including myself there was no masculine role model for balancing the feminine side of things growing up. Many people who use it do so because they were raised by a single mother, and no matter how good a woman is, she cannot give a child the experience of the opposite gender to balance him out and teach him how to be a man. As you may note, many here who use this program therefore are using it because they were taught how to please a woman, not be a man.
Ironically, the "kiss her butt, buy her things and let her take advantage of you" theme that results is anything but what a woman really wants in a man. She wants a man, not a doormat, no matter what his mother taught him. The only exception is going to be a woman who doesn't want a man because a strong man threatens her sense of strength, and instead, she chooses weak men (boys) who were raised to be doormats, which she can walk on and control easily. This type of woman is broken, as is the type of "man" she chooses.
For me, this program was the only thing I had to use to learn how to be a man, become self sufficient, gain self confidence in my own masculinity in the face of man hating feminists, and generally stand up for myself in general. A lot of guys come from similar backgrounds, with similar needs.
Men who don't, however, can still benefit from the program because of what it is and what it does. How "alpha" is it to have a useful and effective tool, but not use it because someone might think you're weak for doing so? That's basically what your concern boils down to. And the answer is... not very! Because worrying what others might or do think is the domain of a beta, not an alpha.
An alpha will use the tools available to accomplish their goals, and to hell with what everyone else thinks. They don't care, because they're - you guessed it - alpha. They think for themselves, do their own thing, and they are self supportive and self validating.
So by having such a tool available and not using it, especially because you're afraid someone might judge you negatively for using it, you're not being more alpha. You're being more beta.
The rest of your concern appears to be centered around having a hard time believing what you read here. Addicted to subliminals? Hardly. Addiction is something very different. These people found a useful tool for easy self improvement and they want to use it. Once you start seeing the difference compared to affirmations, etc. you'll want to keep using them, too, because it's so much easier AND more effective.
I'm sure others can say more.
Welcome back, and enjoy your ride on the alpha train.
Ironically, the "kiss her butt, buy her things and let her take advantage of you" theme that results is anything but what a woman really wants in a man. She wants a man, not a doormat, no matter what his mother taught him. The only exception is going to be a woman who doesn't want a man because a strong man threatens her sense of strength, and instead, she chooses weak men (boys) who were raised to be doormats, which she can walk on and control easily. This type of woman is broken, as is the type of "man" she chooses.
For me, this program was the only thing I had to use to learn how to be a man, become self sufficient, gain self confidence in my own masculinity in the face of man hating feminists, and generally stand up for myself in general. A lot of guys come from similar backgrounds, with similar needs.
Men who don't, however, can still benefit from the program because of what it is and what it does. How "alpha" is it to have a useful and effective tool, but not use it because someone might think you're weak for doing so? That's basically what your concern boils down to. And the answer is... not very! Because worrying what others might or do think is the domain of a beta, not an alpha.
An alpha will use the tools available to accomplish their goals, and to hell with what everyone else thinks. They don't care, because they're - you guessed it - alpha. They think for themselves, do their own thing, and they are self supportive and self validating.
So by having such a tool available and not using it, especially because you're afraid someone might judge you negatively for using it, you're not being more alpha. You're being more beta.
The rest of your concern appears to be centered around having a hard time believing what you read here. Addicted to subliminals? Hardly. Addiction is something very different. These people found a useful tool for easy self improvement and they want to use it. Once you start seeing the difference compared to affirmations, etc. you'll want to keep using them, too, because it's so much easier AND more effective.
I'm sure others can say more.
Welcome back, and enjoy your ride on the alpha train.
Subliminal Audio Specialist & Administrator
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!