08-09-2010, 01:11 PM
(08-09-2010, 08:17 AM)ronatello Wrote: " But now, since the 2010 version is smoother I won't have to worry about that much. However right now I'm tired of having dead-weight people hold me back. Especially those that I know don't have my me in their best interest and keep trying to use me. "
From what I gather, the alpha male subs will cause you to stand your ground and stand up for what you believe in. So the question to ask yourself is: "what will I profit to myself if I keep these people in my life?"
That may sound cold but really, there are much higher quality people out there. You will lose old friends. You will gain new, MUCH higher quality ones in return. Your old friends will hold on you tooth and nail and keep you from moving forward. Keep the train a movin'!
The dynamics of friendships and relationships will undoubtedly change but there is no reason why all your existing friendships won't survive. Unless of course you want to cut them loose. If anything other people accepted me as alpha before I even fully accepted it myself.
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