smash being extremely lucky

[Shannon]

He is 39 or 40 years old ;-)

Back ontopic:

I think the best way, to be with a woman is visualizing how you enjoy your time together, instead of having sex with her, because that is making you needy.... doesn´t it? What´s the approach of Master Shannon?

You will get what you ask for. If you want sex, visualize exactly the kind of sex you want. If you want romance, visualize yourself and your lady being romantic. If you want both, visualize both. Relationship? Visualize that. marriage? Kids? Etc. - visualize what it is you want.

When I was attracting my redheaded mirror soul, I would visualize her walking down the beach nude with me. I would visualize us enjoying eachother's company, making out, enjoying sex, snuggling while watching a movie. What did I get? A woman who was the spitting image of the one I visualized, who loved the beach, who enjoyed spending time with me, making out with me, snuggling while we watched a movie, and Sex? Let's just say, there was a pushbutton starter on that one. No warm up necessary. She was always ready... until communication problems killed our cohesion, and everything fell apart.

So you might want to avoid the mistake I made and make sure communication is good, too.