I haven’t used DMSI in a lot of years, or any attraction products for that matter. But one reason I believe the hits never went anywhere is my communication has been lacking. Girls would lose interest after things fizzled out because I would never do anything, or after they threw themselves at me I wouldn’t capitalize on it.
That doesn’t just mean “closing”, but also the natural communication and dance of a man and a woman. I was in too much pain and too traumatized to have the natural faculties that naturally lead to the inevitable conclusion of a man and woman attracted to each other. How could I expect for that to happen when I could barely be in conversations with anyone, let alone a woman without being in pain, anxious, or apathetic (all stemming from blockages and emotional damage).
My advice to most men who come here is to focus on healing and overcoming blockages, and basic self development like self esteem, confidence, self validation etc. These fundamental building blocks are the most important thing, and something you’re going to need not just for women, but for everything else in your life. Of course most men who need this advice will ignore it, but hopefully at least a couple take it to heart. OGSF, EPHRA, AM, SD etc are all good titles to focus your base.
If you’ve used attraction products in the past and are tired of getting hits but no results, then I recommend taking my advice and spending a couple years focusing on your base. You may lament at the “waste of time”, but I assure you it is worth it. The reality is that most guys are probably “wasting” their time getting hits with no results when using these programs anyways, so you might as well “waste” your time focusing on the basics.
That doesn’t just mean “closing”, but also the natural communication and dance of a man and a woman. I was in too much pain and too traumatized to have the natural faculties that naturally lead to the inevitable conclusion of a man and woman attracted to each other. How could I expect for that to happen when I could barely be in conversations with anyone, let alone a woman without being in pain, anxious, or apathetic (all stemming from blockages and emotional damage).
My advice to most men who come here is to focus on healing and overcoming blockages, and basic self development like self esteem, confidence, self validation etc. These fundamental building blocks are the most important thing, and something you’re going to need not just for women, but for everything else in your life. Of course most men who need this advice will ignore it, but hopefully at least a couple take it to heart. OGSF, EPHRA, AM, SD etc are all good titles to focus your base.
If you’ve used attraction products in the past and are tired of getting hits but no results, then I recommend taking my advice and spending a couple years focusing on your base. You may lament at the “waste of time”, but I assure you it is worth it. The reality is that most guys are probably “wasting” their time getting hits with no results when using these programs anyways, so you might as well “waste” your time focusing on the basics.
