12-20-2023, 03:49 PM
(12-17-2023, 11:30 AM)ffaux Wrote: Dating women on DMSI is like turning on easy mode—they ignore their own objections and move things forward to sex. The trouble is getting to a date. Clearly executing in the first area, and still not in the latter.
I wonder if there’s anything I can do about this consciously. 7 loops seems like a good amount—it’s definitely pushing me—but I don’t know if I’m spinning wheels without healing and clearing or FRM, or if DMSI still causes growth without them, and I can help that along consciously.
Where am I at right now? I’m slowly getting dates from online dating. In day to day life, sometimes I’m getting eye contact and smiles, sometimes I’m getting butt displays at the gym and the like, but still nothing more than that, and it’s inconsistent. I talked to a girl who pulled up her shirt to show me her butt at the gym, but there was no indication that she was interested when I talked to her.
Because once you're on the date, you feel like you have permission, right? It reminds me of when you said earlier you wanted to ask this girl out but you didn't get a chance to do it discreetly. Gotta stop caring about that BS