The Alpha male sub is now drawing to a close. I leave this journal for those interested in the Alpha sub.
I am by definition an 'introverted feeling' type on the Myers briggs personality test. It's odd because I always thought myself as a rational 'thinker' rather than a 'feeler', but I now realise that both thinking and feeling are rational modes of judgement and it is Sensation, and Intuition types that are non-rational. It is worth bearing my 'type' in mind when reading into my results from the Alpha sub. I believe all who use it will see similar, but at the same time, unique results.
I am more confident than ever before, more relaxed, more mature, more in control of myself and others, more respectful to myself and to others, (during Stage 6) I've been told many times that I'm seen as a man of strong, good morals, more intelligent, an Alpha to many an equal to other Alphas, higher self esteem, higher social status, more attractive, more sexy, More dominant? Not in the traditional dominant through 'towering over someone' so to speak. Perhaps I suppressed that part of me - my dominance is far more silently spoken as an 'aura' that is felt more implicitly than explicitly. I influence through seemingly doing nothing at all, not through 'dominating' that you could pin point. All in all the Alpha set has effected me up and beyond what I expected it to. I think most people using it will get similar - although slightly different - results.
I will always recommend the Alpha sub as the first sub to any many here looking to improve. It covers all the bases and really acts as a solid foundation to build the other 'sparkly' personality bits upon. One of my favourite, quite uncommon, quotes is the one where all the gardeners pay to much attention to the fruit and leaves of a tree whilst ignoring it's roots, trunk and branches. A very apt metaphor to make about the Alpha set would be "trunks don't rustle in the wind" - You will be the same foliage, just on a different, more solid trunk and foundation.
I've had to do the whole "we are just casual, not serious" thing but never the "I want to date you both thing". I'd only known these girls both two hours though and intentions and dynamics where still very much latent at this point. I could see why that kind of honest communication would work well with girls you've known longer though.
I am by definition an 'introverted feeling' type on the Myers briggs personality test. It's odd because I always thought myself as a rational 'thinker' rather than a 'feeler', but I now realise that both thinking and feeling are rational modes of judgement and it is Sensation, and Intuition types that are non-rational. It is worth bearing my 'type' in mind when reading into my results from the Alpha sub. I believe all who use it will see similar, but at the same time, unique results.
I am more confident than ever before, more relaxed, more mature, more in control of myself and others, more respectful to myself and to others, (during Stage 6) I've been told many times that I'm seen as a man of strong, good morals, more intelligent, an Alpha to many an equal to other Alphas, higher self esteem, higher social status, more attractive, more sexy, More dominant? Not in the traditional dominant through 'towering over someone' so to speak. Perhaps I suppressed that part of me - my dominance is far more silently spoken as an 'aura' that is felt more implicitly than explicitly. I influence through seemingly doing nothing at all, not through 'dominating' that you could pin point. All in all the Alpha set has effected me up and beyond what I expected it to. I think most people using it will get similar - although slightly different - results.
I will always recommend the Alpha sub as the first sub to any many here looking to improve. It covers all the bases and really acts as a solid foundation to build the other 'sparkly' personality bits upon. One of my favourite, quite uncommon, quotes is the one where all the gardeners pay to much attention to the fruit and leaves of a tree whilst ignoring it's roots, trunk and branches. A very apt metaphor to make about the Alpha set would be "trunks don't rustle in the wind" - You will be the same foliage, just on a different, more solid trunk and foundation.
(07-20-2010, 12:59 AM)Shannon Wrote: Or you could choose them both. It's not always an option, but sometimes you can pull it off, if you are so inclined. You just have to be very careful to make sure they get equal attention and affection, if you go that route. It's usually not worth trying to have two or more at once though, so your options were what you did, or to sit them down and talk about it. "Look, ladies, I like you both, and I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. What do you suggest?" Then, of course, you do your own thing, but at least you were communicating, and including them in the what's what.
Communicating like this in a very open, honest way makes it really surprisingly frequent that you can end up with them being willing to share you.
I've had to do the whole "we are just casual, not serious" thing but never the "I want to date you both thing". I'd only known these girls both two hours though and intentions and dynamics where still very much latent at this point. I could see why that kind of honest communication would work well with girls you've known longer though.
“To be normal is the ideal aim of the unsuccessful.” - Carl Jung
