01-15-2023, 12:23 PM
Absolutely what Strider said. If you're feeling that way, it means you're using an external locus of control. In other words, instead of deciding hat you believe about yourself, you let others do so for you, which is a form of weakness that women can smell miles away, and this sort of thing is the result. Instead of letting her decide with her beliefs, choices and actions what your masculinity is or how valuable it is, decide for yourself. Choose your own reality, and then stop worrying about or caring what others think of you. Others will accept you as whatever you believe yourself to be, and if you ask them what that is (consciously or otherwise) then they will conclude that you're weak, and act accordingly. The results are that they don't respect you and don't treat you with respect. If you allow them to decide for you what to think of yourself, this will result in you concluding (wrongly) that somehow it means that you aren't good enough, aren't masculine enough, should be ashamed of yourself, etc. In fact what they're doing is pointing out that they don't respect you because you don't decide for yourself what you think of you, and give that power away to others.
Stop doing that. Be your own source of control, masculinity, power and decisions. Be your own man, decide for yourself what you believe about yourself, and then solidify that as your reality and ignore what others think, because in almost all cases, it doesn't matter what they think.
You figure this one point out and do this one thing, and I guarantee you, women will be MUCH more interested in and respectful of you from then on.
Stop doing that. Be your own source of control, masculinity, power and decisions. Be your own man, decide for yourself what you believe about yourself, and then solidify that as your reality and ignore what others think, because in almost all cases, it doesn't matter what they think.
You figure this one point out and do this one thing, and I guarantee you, women will be MUCH more interested in and respectful of you from then on.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!