08-12-2022, 05:14 PM
The shield wasn't created back then, but what's happening makes alot of sense.
It's not because of a shield. It's because you've grown in yourself and your own self esteem. Where before when you had more insecurities and such you would have accepted a woman like that, now you've grown in yourself and realized you don't want that in your life.
And on a deeper level that can also drive people away who don't match your new level of self esteem (this is a positive as you've seen) and attract people who are better for you.
It's not because of a shield. It's because you've grown in yourself and your own self esteem. Where before when you had more insecurities and such you would have accepted a woman like that, now you've grown in yourself and realized you don't want that in your life.
And on a deeper level that can also drive people away who don't match your new level of self esteem (this is a positive as you've seen) and attract people who are better for you.