cycle 2. Stage 4 (month 2), day 17:
Yesterday, I have broken my several months long dry spell...
Out of the blue, I got a like on tinder. My first impression was.. nah not my type... but I have noticed a small detail that made me think. well maybe she might be fun after all...
So I did open her... It did turn out that she was very horny... and more or less in the same situation than me. that is Back to market after a very long ltr with kids... We did chat for maybe 30 mins... We did agree to meet in a park and an hour later we were in her bed...
I did really not take time to know her better to pull the trigger but I think that I have stumbled into a very good girl.
How does that anecdote fit with UMS...
For one, I did mention on few occassions that by the end of my UMS cycle 2, I would do a 1 month DMSI run to reward myself for my UMS goal dedication with some fun time... The experience has been so unexpected... out of nowhere and so easy and fluid that it makes me wonder if I did experience DMSI TID.
2. I was not aware of it but it seems that my lack od sexual release in the last few months were starting to tax me...
Today, I felt so much energy that it was as if I had a rocket backpack... I got a very productive day too... I was really in fire and I attribute this energy level to the very fun evening that I had yesterday...
I'll see where this new relation goes... She did enjoy herself too a lot and wants us to redo it... So in case that I have a steady sexual partner... I might change my plan to run DMSI and instead jump into UMS final cycle 3...
We will see how it goes...I take it one day at a time but I have realized that I was not a robot and I need to take care of my needs to maintain an optimal work performance...
Yesterday, I have broken my several months long dry spell...
Out of the blue, I got a like on tinder. My first impression was.. nah not my type... but I have noticed a small detail that made me think. well maybe she might be fun after all...
So I did open her... It did turn out that she was very horny... and more or less in the same situation than me. that is Back to market after a very long ltr with kids... We did chat for maybe 30 mins... We did agree to meet in a park and an hour later we were in her bed...
I did really not take time to know her better to pull the trigger but I think that I have stumbled into a very good girl.
How does that anecdote fit with UMS...
For one, I did mention on few occassions that by the end of my UMS cycle 2, I would do a 1 month DMSI run to reward myself for my UMS goal dedication with some fun time... The experience has been so unexpected... out of nowhere and so easy and fluid that it makes me wonder if I did experience DMSI TID.
2. I was not aware of it but it seems that my lack od sexual release in the last few months were starting to tax me...
Today, I felt so much energy that it was as if I had a rocket backpack... I got a very productive day too... I was really in fire and I attribute this energy level to the very fun evening that I had yesterday...
I'll see where this new relation goes... She did enjoy herself too a lot and wants us to redo it... So in case that I have a steady sexual partner... I might change my plan to run DMSI and instead jump into UMS final cycle 3...
We will see how it goes...I take it one day at a time but I have realized that I was not a robot and I need to take care of my needs to maintain an optimal work performance...