09-01-2012, 03:21 AM
(08-31-2012, 07:59 PM)Shannon Wrote: Have been where you are, Mat. You know what got me through? Alpha. And in some directions, being forced. But Alpha is what I owe most of my transformation to, since 2006. I think I am going to start adding fear destruction to everything since fear seems to be the leading issue underlying almost everything else.
What about a sub that just deals with fear? Fear of failure, Fear of success and others that serve no purpose. I think fear of success and failure are my number one concern when it comes with woman, and you could throw in procrastination for good measure. I'm running Alpha to combat that and WM to hopefully make a difference.
Whenever I go out to meet woman I come up with every stupid excuse not to approach and it's becoming a major problem, even though I'm a good looking and intelligent guy. Then when I come home I feel like a complete idiot for not taking action. Even messaging a woman online is a problem, again I just keep making excuses for myself and procrastinate on it. This has been going on for years and I really need this handled for once and for all especially now that I'm in my late 30's.
It's like my subconscious is making me avoid it.
