lano DMSI v3.5 5.8G

[Shannon]

My friend, a woman never tells a man she is in birth control, never mind what type, if she isn't either talking to her gyno or making it known that she can't get pregnant as a way to entice him into sex.  And it may also mean she's open to bareback sex.  However, as I state in the description of DMSI, where I say that those responding may tell you they're on BC, it may also not be true.  And there's no easy way to prove an IUD, short of her showing you the string, which would require a rather thorough exam of her deep nethers with a speculum and a flash light.  

What you're telling me definitely says she's sexually attracted and probably wants to have sex, but it also strongly suggests that she is still trying to get you to initiate.  Since you hit her with Mode 1, she wants a different approach.

DON'T GIVE HER WHAT SHE WANTS!  Make her initiate any sex that happens.  Over time, the aura of DMSI should have a cumulative effect that makes her want you more and more, and sooner or later, she should have to do something about it.

By the way, Chrissy's suggestion about inviting her along to something you're going to enjoy with or without her, is priceless.  I figured that out on my own about 10 years ago, and it doesn't always work, but it does always prevent you from looking stupid if she turns down your offer.  When it does work, it works really well.  Just know who's going to pay for her if what you're doing isn't free, and make that clear up front.  She'll probably expect you to pay, since the rules of common courtesy usually point to the person doing the inviting covering the person being invited.  But there are plenty of things you can do for free.  Just don't end up stuck with her while she shops at the shoe store in the mall or some crap like that, lol.