02-09-2022, 05:19 PM
Lo
Sorry to barge into your journal! (No advice listed below
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Wow men are smarter than we women think.
Honestly, don’t put it past her to look you up, and find that information up and bring it up to you. We usually do that to men we find attractive and sometimes it’s just testing things out.
Just a suggestion but maybe like have something planned already and invite her to it and make it seem like you’re gonna go and enjoy yourself whether she’s there or not. And then if she says yes, you can warm it to the other stuff. Something about a man going to enjoy themselves regardless, does it for me & some other women I know.
I can tell you one thing, if I find I guy attractive I would want to sleep with him. But sometimes what stops me (one of the reasons I’m listening to DMSI) is that I don’t want them to know that I want to have sex, Idk. But of shame, stigma, & insecurities in that, etc. So she might think you’re so attractive, and is just afraid.
Honestly women initiate in so many different ways. So I wonder how Shannon has it set up in the subliminal. Men are so much more direct, but women can be confusing at times. Even to me. And I’m one.
If she stares a lot, she’s interested. If she bumps into you, she’s interested. If you see her around your area more than once, in unlikely places, she’s interested.
(02-09-2022, 03:42 PM)lano1106 Wrote: Some other detail about mentioned girl in the first entry...
Today she was present as well. She used to only come twice per week but last week, she started to pretty come every day of the week...
before the workout, she did perform some stretching on the floor facing me which pretty much did allow me to have an excellent view on her breast cleavage... not too long after looking at her, she did look back at me and I did smile at her and she reciprocated.
At the end of the work out, we had sit ups to do and she decided to put herself right in front of my facing me with her legs semi spreaded... Again because of her position, I could look at her crotch very well...
finally, before leaving, she did mention that her nephew was learning C++... That could be a pure coincidence but I suspect that she may have made a small investigation about my interests online and perhaps she did plug the C++ thing by seeking rapport with me knowing that this topic is pretty much my thing...
Ok, ok, ok... it seems like evidences about her interest for me are pilling up... Maybe there is something here... but I am going to wait for her to set up things so that we make stuff together. She has been deaf to all my attempts in that direction so she better let me know in any way that she would be more receptive for such things before I try again...
Sorry to barge into your journal! (No advice listed below
) Wow men are smarter than we women think.
Honestly, don’t put it past her to look you up, and find that information up and bring it up to you. We usually do that to men we find attractive and sometimes it’s just testing things out.Just a suggestion but maybe like have something planned already and invite her to it and make it seem like you’re gonna go and enjoy yourself whether she’s there or not. And then if she says yes, you can warm it to the other stuff. Something about a man going to enjoy themselves regardless, does it for me & some other women I know.
I can tell you one thing, if I find I guy attractive I would want to sleep with him. But sometimes what stops me (one of the reasons I’m listening to DMSI) is that I don’t want them to know that I want to have sex, Idk. But of shame, stigma, & insecurities in that, etc. So she might think you’re so attractive, and is just afraid.
Honestly women initiate in so many different ways. So I wonder how Shannon has it set up in the subliminal. Men are so much more direct, but women can be confusing at times. Even to me. And I’m one.
If she stares a lot, she’s interested. If she bumps into you, she’s interested. If you see her around your area more than once, in unlikely places, she’s interested.
