No, I don't think that I have been trying too hard. If there is something that you could say about me is the opposite. That I am not trying hard enough.
I pretty much let her alone and wait for her to open me up.
You are right, I omitted a lot of details such as her opening me several times per week on FB messenger to talk about whatever...
You have no idea the amount of signs that she has thrown at me over the weeks. My reaction to them was to open ways for her to move our relation forward while being indifferent to the outcome. She bites, fine, I'll move along with her. She don't, I'm fine as well...
TBH, I started to be annoyed with this ambiguity and this uncertainty. Like she throws at me signs of interests but OTOH, she refuses to consider spending time with me. Having a female chat buddy isn't my thing and I borderline consider that as a waste of time.
I would have loved things to move forward organically and naturally but that wasn't happening. Therefore, I resorted to a direct offer to have fun together. This was a make or break situation and I didn't care either way. She ended up declining the offer and to me, that has been a relief. The cat went out of the bag and I have stopped wondering...
Also, since my mode 1 offer, I think that she got the message about what my interest was and she has diminished her FB messages. No idea, if I caught her off with my offer. Maybe I did plant a seed in her mind and eventually something will happen. Or not...
really, I don't care at all what might happen. I like the girl. She is cute, intelligent and funny but this is not THE ONE... or some sick shit like that...
You know, I'm not too worried about her, I was just reporting the observations that I might attribute to listening to DMSI...
Beside that, I am 100% cool with whatever happens next!
Cheer!
I pretty much let her alone and wait for her to open me up.
You are right, I omitted a lot of details such as her opening me several times per week on FB messenger to talk about whatever...
You have no idea the amount of signs that she has thrown at me over the weeks. My reaction to them was to open ways for her to move our relation forward while being indifferent to the outcome. She bites, fine, I'll move along with her. She don't, I'm fine as well...
TBH, I started to be annoyed with this ambiguity and this uncertainty. Like she throws at me signs of interests but OTOH, she refuses to consider spending time with me. Having a female chat buddy isn't my thing and I borderline consider that as a waste of time.
I would have loved things to move forward organically and naturally but that wasn't happening. Therefore, I resorted to a direct offer to have fun together. This was a make or break situation and I didn't care either way. She ended up declining the offer and to me, that has been a relief. The cat went out of the bag and I have stopped wondering...
Also, since my mode 1 offer, I think that she got the message about what my interest was and she has diminished her FB messages. No idea, if I caught her off with my offer. Maybe I did plant a seed in her mind and eventually something will happen. Or not...
really, I don't care at all what might happen. I like the girl. She is cute, intelligent and funny but this is not THE ONE... or some sick shit like that...
You know, I'm not too worried about her, I was just reporting the observations that I might attribute to listening to DMSI...
Beside that, I am 100% cool with whatever happens next!
Cheer!
