lano DMSI v3.5 5.8G

[Shannon]

Shannon, those are good advice... that being said, I have been doing all of that for some time with her. I have invited her to my place to have a coffee and continue talking after working out.

She did mention her interest in getting started with crypto. I did offer to come over and help her to be up and running with crypto in exchange of her taking of drinks...

No matter what I place on the table, she doesn't bite... This makes me wonder if I read her well or if she is just friendly...

just to make sure that my intention weren't ambigous and it did not work because she wasn't sure what I was up to, I made to her an explicit Mode 1 offer while she was chatting with me on a saterday evening. And she did decline my offer. From that point, I am not going to make any other offers unless she gives me a sign that she would be interested into that.

On a positive note, making my mode 1 offer and anticipating the answer used to be a source of anxiety. This time the process was pretty smooth emotionally for me. I give credit to OF for that.

From my previous DMSI successes I know that I need put myself in order for it to have opportunities to do something... For obvious reasons, during the last 2 years, I kinda have adopted a hermit lifestyle. I need push myself and go out... Not far from me, there is big festive outdoor activities... this is where I should be next week-end.

I have still 3 more weeks to run the experiment and score...

You left a lot out then.

The key is, you want to make it so they can move on their desires, but not do it for them.  It may be that you seemed to be trying too hard and that killed her attraction.  Do you think that's possible?

Neediness is a big killer for attraction, and you may be self conflicted in 2 or 3 different directions by the sounds of it.  One part of you wants to hide from socializing, one part of you wants to achieve the goals of DMSI and one part of you may be trying too hard when you do try.

I don't know enough to know for sure, but consider those things and let me know which you think are happening.  Then I can try to help you with them.