01-28-2022, 01:25 PM
Aloha, All!
Hanging out in a secretive location in the middle of the Pacific on a lonely beach in a comfortable little cottage. Went kayaking, made our coffee, cleaned up and now it's time for a little 'desk work' but first a brief update.
3.5 is definitely superior to the 3.3. I used it under exactly these circumstances and it was a lot of fun but wow- more fun than ever now.
I will list off quickly a few observations/experiences not tied to a particular day, days blend into one another here... but first a couple preliminary observations that can help frame our experiences.
1. We did a couple rounds of DMSI 3.3 before and noticed permanent changes in the way we related. e.g. she was more open and less inhibited with me probably due to an increase in confidence and desire--a heady mix for a young (or older) lady.
2. Btwn August and December we ran the new Aura of Love and experienced some changes that also appear to be permanent. Less friction btwn us and she in particular seems very ready to let go of little things that she would allow to become a big deal. This still happens, but the 'recovery cycle' may only be seconds or minutes rather than more drawn out.
3. I did the DMSI 3.5 without her during the previous couple weeks and noticed it helped me alot.
4. I changed my meds a bit (TRT) around the same time as starting DMSI 3.5 and felt like the change made a bit difference, but not sure if it is the sub or a combo effect (most likely)
5. During sex I have been using the OE (orgasm enhancer) for great effect. Have only used this episodically, a rotation or two right before and during amorous times.
Now for sub observations: (I am playing the silent version during the night to both of us)
In the few outside contacts we make, I am watching for a man to take some interest in my wife or just the flirty stuff. I *think* I have seen some warming there, but nothing distinct enough to share yet.
That's all for now, still really enjoying it at 2 reps per night.
Aloha!
Rono
Hanging out in a secretive location in the middle of the Pacific on a lonely beach in a comfortable little cottage. Went kayaking, made our coffee, cleaned up and now it's time for a little 'desk work' but first a brief update.
3.5 is definitely superior to the 3.3. I used it under exactly these circumstances and it was a lot of fun but wow- more fun than ever now.
I will list off quickly a few observations/experiences not tied to a particular day, days blend into one another here... but first a couple preliminary observations that can help frame our experiences.
1. We did a couple rounds of DMSI 3.3 before and noticed permanent changes in the way we related. e.g. she was more open and less inhibited with me probably due to an increase in confidence and desire--a heady mix for a young (or older) lady.
2. Btwn August and December we ran the new Aura of Love and experienced some changes that also appear to be permanent. Less friction btwn us and she in particular seems very ready to let go of little things that she would allow to become a big deal. This still happens, but the 'recovery cycle' may only be seconds or minutes rather than more drawn out.
3. I did the DMSI 3.5 without her during the previous couple weeks and noticed it helped me alot.
4. I changed my meds a bit (TRT) around the same time as starting DMSI 3.5 and felt like the change made a bit difference, but not sure if it is the sub or a combo effect (most likely)
5. During sex I have been using the OE (orgasm enhancer) for great effect. Have only used this episodically, a rotation or two right before and during amorous times.
Now for sub observations: (I am playing the silent version during the night to both of us)
- We both seem to have a much more positive and energetic vibe. But at the same time we are both tireder than usual and find it easy to give in to that tiredness and prioritize sleep. Prioritizing sleep has been hard for my wife in the past, but she's totally on board at this point.
- A situation arose in the airport or a store (travel day--don't remember where this actually happened), but my wife found herself sucked into an awkward exchange between a customer and either a store employee or another customer and was able, with a smile and cheery disposition de-fuse it and help both people all the while feeling comfortable in herself. It happened very naturally, though this is not her default behavior in public where she would avoid talking to strangers unless specifically asked a question or such.
- Wife is now kind of initiating sex and her inhibitions are really dropping away. More willing to try stuff, and just cut loose and enjoy sexy, amorous behaviors. Also, less judgy when I suggest something new or kinky.
- She was in a little store on the island and found that the shopkeeper really appreciated her, the shopgirl chatted her up and told her she hoped we'd have a chance to stop in again cause she liked chatting with her. My wife and I are usually friendly with people with whom we do business because our philosophy is to treat people with respect and like actual human beings with feelings, a background, families, etc. but this girl was wanting to be friends with us.
In the few outside contacts we make, I am watching for a man to take some interest in my wife or just the flirty stuff. I *think* I have seen some warming there, but nothing distinct enough to share yet.
That's all for now, still really enjoying it at 2 reps per night.
Aloha!
Rono
