Day 1-3
I definitely experienced some TID with this one. Really funny, too, cause I was wondering why I was having such a 'good' day, the day I realized it was out and downloaded it. There is no 'Day 0' with this one, it seems to kick right in.
I do have extensive experience with the old DMSI 3.3.2, @Shannon: does that impact how this affects me? e.g. from the outset I was wanting to listen to it 2x a day (once Hybrid, once silent)-- but not more, at least not at this point.
So since I started this I noticed, (as you say with your gf), that my wife likes it. She doesn't even realize I'm using it but she does like it.
In order to not make the post too NSFW, I will just say, that she has been giving me some 'joy' (bjs) in the am these last three mornings. Even this am when she really actually wanted sex, she "was having so much fun" (her words--and this is remarkable bec she has tended to think of bjs as a thing she does for me) she just went with the "joy" instead of stopping and asking for sex.
Also, last evening, she was getting real cranky and I must have handled it well because after I confronted her on it (I had been very loving and curious about how she was feeling bec she was having both a bit of a back issue and we had both just gotten over omicron and she was recovering a little slower than I), she got quiet for a bit.
After a little time of both of us sitting in silence she started to flirt with me. Trying to get me to look her in the eyes (which she was batting subtly) and then the rest of the evening she was almost hanging on me she was wanting so many hugs and kisses. She is NOT the demonstrative type--that would be me. But last night she was all over it--A Dream Come True as they say.
So.... so far so good!
@Shannon: I'll run it on myself for a week or 10 days before I try it on both of us. I'll watch for the things you talk about.
To others on the thread:
My wife and I have a VERY strong, long-term relationship. Neither of us have a wandering eye and have invested all our erotic feelings in one another. 40+ years and we're going strong. If you are the sort to be tempted OR she is the sort to be tempted, I would not expose yourselves to this. It does open 'horizons'. She and I find this sexy and emotionally/erotically stimulating which makes for better sex and a more 'zingy' relationship in general.
That's all for now!
Will check back.
Oh and Shannon, I'd be willing to try out your Testosterone maximizer. I've been on TRT for many years and my doc keeps bugging me to cycle off, but I don't want to do that without a 'backup plan' that could be it.
I definitely experienced some TID with this one. Really funny, too, cause I was wondering why I was having such a 'good' day, the day I realized it was out and downloaded it. There is no 'Day 0' with this one, it seems to kick right in.
I do have extensive experience with the old DMSI 3.3.2, @Shannon: does that impact how this affects me? e.g. from the outset I was wanting to listen to it 2x a day (once Hybrid, once silent)-- but not more, at least not at this point.
So since I started this I noticed, (as you say with your gf), that my wife likes it. She doesn't even realize I'm using it but she does like it.
In order to not make the post too NSFW, I will just say, that she has been giving me some 'joy' (bjs) in the am these last three mornings. Even this am when she really actually wanted sex, she "was having so much fun" (her words--and this is remarkable bec she has tended to think of bjs as a thing she does for me) she just went with the "joy" instead of stopping and asking for sex.
Also, last evening, she was getting real cranky and I must have handled it well because after I confronted her on it (I had been very loving and curious about how she was feeling bec she was having both a bit of a back issue and we had both just gotten over omicron and she was recovering a little slower than I), she got quiet for a bit.
After a little time of both of us sitting in silence she started to flirt with me. Trying to get me to look her in the eyes (which she was batting subtly) and then the rest of the evening she was almost hanging on me she was wanting so many hugs and kisses. She is NOT the demonstrative type--that would be me. But last night she was all over it--A Dream Come True as they say.
So.... so far so good!
@Shannon: I'll run it on myself for a week or 10 days before I try it on both of us. I'll watch for the things you talk about.
To others on the thread:
My wife and I have a VERY strong, long-term relationship. Neither of us have a wandering eye and have invested all our erotic feelings in one another. 40+ years and we're going strong. If you are the sort to be tempted OR she is the sort to be tempted, I would not expose yourselves to this. It does open 'horizons'. She and I find this sexy and emotionally/erotically stimulating which makes for better sex and a more 'zingy' relationship in general.
That's all for now!
Will check back.
Oh and Shannon, I'd be willing to try out your Testosterone maximizer. I've been on TRT for many years and my doc keeps bugging me to cycle off, but I don't want to do that without a 'backup plan' that could be it.
