08-29-2012, 07:15 AM
You know...practically every woman I've met online told me I was one of the very few to actually meet her. Maggie, how is that with you? Obviously, you have much more confidence, but how many men have you actually met on the site and what made you compelled to meet them?
Obviously, the majority of men on this website send exactly the same messages. The funny thing is...I created many fake female accounts and would literally sit there getting a chat pop-up and refresh to display about 10 unread messages every 5 minutes. It literally got overwhelming I couldn't look at it anymore. But during this, I also messaged back to guys, same typical responses. I got to the point where I would literally copy my response to their questions and paste them in everyone's messages because they would all ask the same question, it would usually go something like this.
My response to their first message of usual "You're beautiful how are you?":
Me: "Hi"
Them: "How are you doing today?"
Me: "Great"
Them: "I see you live in (or from) .... what do you do for fun?"
Me: "Ahh shop"
Them: "Oh cool, I like shopping too"
When I would stop responding here... I'd get more boring questions like "do you like this....?", "any plans for the weekend?", those were also 2 very popular questions within the first 5 e-mails.
Practically every single conversation went exactly the same way. So like I said, I could literally copy my responses to their questions and paste them between messages I was responding to. It seriously was like every man on these sites had the same exact list of questions/conversation tips to e-mailing a woman. It was literally boring the hell out of me and made me wonder...
I would end up asking every guy how many women they've met and how the site was working for them. The majority would say "ahh only fatties respond", "I've gone out with about 2 women and they were nothing I wanted" (when asking why? their number one response was...she was crazy, or looked nothing like her pictures). I would ask "when was your last date?" most would respond maybe a month ago. I asked many how long they were on the site and most responded with "6 months". Out of that 6 months, the majority said they only went on 2 dates during that time and weren't satisfied. One guy, told me he's been on it for 2 weeks and already went on 5 dates. But he honestly didn't stand out to me whatsoever so I don't know if he was being honest.
Ryan
Obviously, the majority of men on this website send exactly the same messages. The funny thing is...I created many fake female accounts and would literally sit there getting a chat pop-up and refresh to display about 10 unread messages every 5 minutes. It literally got overwhelming I couldn't look at it anymore. But during this, I also messaged back to guys, same typical responses. I got to the point where I would literally copy my response to their questions and paste them in everyone's messages because they would all ask the same question, it would usually go something like this.
My response to their first message of usual "You're beautiful how are you?":
Me: "Hi"
Them: "How are you doing today?"
Me: "Great"
Them: "I see you live in (or from) .... what do you do for fun?"
Me: "Ahh shop"
Them: "Oh cool, I like shopping too"
When I would stop responding here... I'd get more boring questions like "do you like this....?", "any plans for the weekend?", those were also 2 very popular questions within the first 5 e-mails.
Practically every single conversation went exactly the same way. So like I said, I could literally copy my responses to their questions and paste them between messages I was responding to. It seriously was like every man on these sites had the same exact list of questions/conversation tips to e-mailing a woman. It was literally boring the hell out of me and made me wonder...
I would end up asking every guy how many women they've met and how the site was working for them. The majority would say "ahh only fatties respond", "I've gone out with about 2 women and they were nothing I wanted" (when asking why? their number one response was...she was crazy, or looked nothing like her pictures). I would ask "when was your last date?" most would respond maybe a month ago. I asked many how long they were on the site and most responded with "6 months". Out of that 6 months, the majority said they only went on 2 dates during that time and weren't satisfied. One guy, told me he's been on it for 2 weeks and already went on 5 dates. But he honestly didn't stand out to me whatsoever so I don't know if he was being honest.
Ryan
