The real reason why subliminals aren’t working for some people

[Johannesbrst]

I guess, this is old "I will not change for anyone" attitude, If I am open are vulnerable  to manipulation I have to change myself for myself not for anyone else.

What will happen do you think if you find your AYP, believe me if she finds out that she can manipulate and use you (I also read Manipulated Men)  she definitely will do it, at least she will not interested in you after a few days.
My point wasn't to change to attract women, you become a better man, a self-controlled, non-manipulable  man, than this will make an attractive guy.
Finding an AYP or using DMSI is good to find hot women but, I rather prefer to handle those women before attracting them to me, because I attracted a few women who were very attractive and seems to into me, but after they found out that I wasn't the guy they were imagined, they just disappointed and disappeared.

everybody here is trying to be best version of themselves isn't?

Shannon has long time ago when developing AM realized that this is a huge factor on becoming a self-sufficient man, to no longer be ruled by the primal instincts, but instead achieve mastery over yourself. This in turn is what makes women crazy over the Alpha Male, as he can't be controlled by them.

I agree that

What I love about AYP is that even if it doesn’t last long, it attracts the exact relationship that you need to help you grow at that time. You should try it, I find it to be much more progressive than trying to be something you’re not.

Who said anything about changing to please someone else? AM is about finding out your own standards and staying true to those. That's what makes you attractive, and that's a side effect, not a primary goal. 

And about being someone who you aren't - finding your own standards and learning to abide to them is arguably being more honest to yourself and who you really are, rather than being invested in what makes other people want to be with you (in other words being needy, which AM help you overcome).