06-28-2021, 04:32 PM
(This post was last modified: 06-28-2021, 04:33 PM by LionMonkey.)
[AM Stage 1 - Day 4] – Natural Alpha Cultivation
Yoooo! Funny thing happened
We saw the football match, 3-3 France-Swiss with overtime goal shooting competition ending.
Hurraaaay!! When last last shot got saved and France won 5-4 (we got a French on our floor)
Good vibes, I go to my room thinking I'm going to bed soon.
Loud music suddenly starts playing outside at the core where parties are held.
I decide to groom neatly, away with the slick hair back and moustache. Had this for 2 years now.. it's about TIME!
Cleaaaaaan look. Military look. Young and handsome – what most girls like. Previous look was going for older and arrogant feel.
Then I decide to go to that core party. Taking a coconut water with me as there's no bar there.
On the elevator down, I get a little pumped sensing that I'm about to dance, meet people and girls.
But I also have some uncertainty of the unknown. Not the first time I go solo socializing.
With an open mind, curiosity and pumped, I walk past a group of around 10 sitting outside.
I walk inside and music isn't very loud, three guys sitting at the left, downstairs people were dancing but only like 6 people!!
What a party man!
I go and talk to these three guys to see what's up.
"Yeah man, it's summer vacation party.. there were a lot of people before."
Short small talk and I congratulate them on the vacation and go back to my apartment.
Unable to feel tired, I realize I somehow pumped myself up like I did when I was younger.
Very interestingly, it's still in me and I can summon it when wanted. I thought I had become old and not as spirited as when younger.
What a B.S. belief!!
Anyway, writing this update makes me a little sleepy so that's win-win.
Life's about the win-wins man....
Not lose-wins or tie-ties...
WIN-WINS!!
But you can only make sure it is win-wins, when you are conscious/aware enough to see – what a win could look like for others.
Sometimes others will stand in your way as well, consciously and lots of time subconsciously.
It's part of life and you are being tested and challenged.
Embrace it and go through it like thunder.
BOOM and it disappears.
Next!
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Natural Alpha Cultivation
So I've taken to heart what I realized yesterday.
Being so focused and using so much of my free attention to look a certain way might have gotten me some looks from hot women.
But it is nothing compared to the impact I have when I let my attention flow more freely.
It's funny how it also correlates with the works of Dr. Joe Dispenza whom I've studied for a few months.
You are not your body. You are basically your attention.
So I'm NOT the way I wanted others to perceive me, the alphaness I was holding on to.
I am that thing which I kept contained because of insecurity of how others would perceive me.
That thing is my attention, my focus, my awareness.
My eyes and facial expression will display who I am in the moment. I.e. what my attention/focus is at.
People can often times sense who you are in the moment. Not specifically but in a general sense.
So the funny thing is, I feel like I'm treated MORE like an alpha by being more NATURAL of how I am perceived.
Was with some family members today and it showed as well.
I do still think if it's not something you've practiced before, it's a good idea to have it in your awareness/focus if you want to be more alpha.
Once it's more ingrained, you can let your attention flow more naturally again and use it for other things.
Hope that made sense LOL.
It's some experimental jaazz...
Hope you are CRUSHING IT!!!
-LM
Yoooo! Funny thing happened
We saw the football match, 3-3 France-Swiss with overtime goal shooting competition ending.
Hurraaaay!! When last last shot got saved and France won 5-4 (we got a French on our floor)
Good vibes, I go to my room thinking I'm going to bed soon.
Loud music suddenly starts playing outside at the core where parties are held.
I decide to groom neatly, away with the slick hair back and moustache. Had this for 2 years now.. it's about TIME!
Cleaaaaaan look. Military look. Young and handsome – what most girls like. Previous look was going for older and arrogant feel.
Then I decide to go to that core party. Taking a coconut water with me as there's no bar there.
On the elevator down, I get a little pumped sensing that I'm about to dance, meet people and girls.
But I also have some uncertainty of the unknown. Not the first time I go solo socializing.
With an open mind, curiosity and pumped, I walk past a group of around 10 sitting outside.
I walk inside and music isn't very loud, three guys sitting at the left, downstairs people were dancing but only like 6 people!!
What a party man!
I go and talk to these three guys to see what's up.
"Yeah man, it's summer vacation party.. there were a lot of people before."
Short small talk and I congratulate them on the vacation and go back to my apartment.
Unable to feel tired, I realize I somehow pumped myself up like I did when I was younger.
Very interestingly, it's still in me and I can summon it when wanted. I thought I had become old and not as spirited as when younger.
What a B.S. belief!!
Anyway, writing this update makes me a little sleepy so that's win-win.
Life's about the win-wins man....
Not lose-wins or tie-ties...
WIN-WINS!!
But you can only make sure it is win-wins, when you are conscious/aware enough to see – what a win could look like for others.
Sometimes others will stand in your way as well, consciously and lots of time subconsciously.
It's part of life and you are being tested and challenged.
Embrace it and go through it like thunder.
BOOM and it disappears.
Next!
=======================================
Natural Alpha Cultivation
So I've taken to heart what I realized yesterday.
Being so focused and using so much of my free attention to look a certain way might have gotten me some looks from hot women.
But it is nothing compared to the impact I have when I let my attention flow more freely.
It's funny how it also correlates with the works of Dr. Joe Dispenza whom I've studied for a few months.
You are not your body. You are basically your attention.
So I'm NOT the way I wanted others to perceive me, the alphaness I was holding on to.
I am that thing which I kept contained because of insecurity of how others would perceive me.
That thing is my attention, my focus, my awareness.
My eyes and facial expression will display who I am in the moment. I.e. what my attention/focus is at.
People can often times sense who you are in the moment. Not specifically but in a general sense.
So the funny thing is, I feel like I'm treated MORE like an alpha by being more NATURAL of how I am perceived.
Was with some family members today and it showed as well.
I do still think if it's not something you've practiced before, it's a good idea to have it in your awareness/focus if you want to be more alpha.
Once it's more ingrained, you can let your attention flow more naturally again and use it for other things.
Hope that made sense LOL.
It's some experimental jaazz...
Hope you are CRUSHING IT!!!
-LM
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
