08-07-2012, 09:00 PM
Well I use AOS and I can say it works brilliantly. How much is that, and how much is other things I don't know but I say stick with it.
Shannon mentioned making it happen because you're the man. ABSOLUTELY. I could be almost coming in my pants turned on, hot and bothered and WILLING. And I expect a man to make the first move. I will give the indicators, and he has to be man enough to do the work. Not because I'm not capable of it, I've walked up and taken what I wanted many times, but because it's more satisfying when a man does it.
Sorry, it's true. And I've been in many situations where it would have happened (new man, very obviously wants me, prospective) and I consciously thought to myself that he is going to have to man up and actually take charge at some point becuase I'm not going to do all the work for him. Though I basically did by making myself "available."
Tips and tricks for the first month: just accept that you're doing it, and make peace with where you are. Make it ok, be satisfied and eager for more. Don't look desperately at women for evidence that it's working, being desperate for validation is the least sexy trait there is. Accept that you're going to have a powerful aura of sexiness, whether you haveit now or not, and get on with the business of enjoying your now. Before you know it you'll be pleasantly surprised
Shannon mentioned making it happen because you're the man. ABSOLUTELY. I could be almost coming in my pants turned on, hot and bothered and WILLING. And I expect a man to make the first move. I will give the indicators, and he has to be man enough to do the work. Not because I'm not capable of it, I've walked up and taken what I wanted many times, but because it's more satisfying when a man does it.
Sorry, it's true. And I've been in many situations where it would have happened (new man, very obviously wants me, prospective) and I consciously thought to myself that he is going to have to man up and actually take charge at some point becuase I'm not going to do all the work for him. Though I basically did by making myself "available."Tips and tricks for the first month: just accept that you're doing it, and make peace with where you are. Make it ok, be satisfied and eager for more. Don't look desperately at women for evidence that it's working, being desperate for validation is the least sexy trait there is. Accept that you're going to have a powerful aura of sexiness, whether you haveit now or not, and get on with the business of enjoying your now. Before you know it you'll be pleasantly surprised
