11-28-2020, 05:02 PM
Listening through some of the Alexander John audiobook, and I've come to realize the following:
For all the talk about women facing incredible amounts of pressure in society, the "Dos" and "Don't Dos" that the Alpha Male book is talking about, if correct in the results they generate, reveal a form of soft pressure on the behaviors of men.
You must talk, walk, dress, look (with your eye contact), and act in these very specific ways... or else your existence on this planet is diminished; you lose respect from your peers, are limited in your career, repel women and live in a sex-desert. Any person who wants to live a full life should presumably follow these rules, even if they should go against their personality or preferences.
I've noticed that women drop off the face of the earth when they've lost interest; the problem is that I don't know what I've done for them to lose interest. It's a confusing pattern because it might have been a vocal pattern, a look, or a posture - something that is, in some way, a part of "me" - that cancelled all of the work I've put towards myself towards self-improvement. Though women face direct, perhaps hostile, comments towards them and their choices, the men who criticize them at least still (if only silently) want to be with them.
Not trying to make men out-victimize women, but pressures to perform still exist, but in a different form.
For all the talk about women facing incredible amounts of pressure in society, the "Dos" and "Don't Dos" that the Alpha Male book is talking about, if correct in the results they generate, reveal a form of soft pressure on the behaviors of men.
You must talk, walk, dress, look (with your eye contact), and act in these very specific ways... or else your existence on this planet is diminished; you lose respect from your peers, are limited in your career, repel women and live in a sex-desert. Any person who wants to live a full life should presumably follow these rules, even if they should go against their personality or preferences.
I've noticed that women drop off the face of the earth when they've lost interest; the problem is that I don't know what I've done for them to lose interest. It's a confusing pattern because it might have been a vocal pattern, a look, or a posture - something that is, in some way, a part of "me" - that cancelled all of the work I've put towards myself towards self-improvement. Though women face direct, perhaps hostile, comments towards them and their choices, the men who criticize them at least still (if only silently) want to be with them.
Not trying to make men out-victimize women, but pressures to perform still exist, but in a different form.
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