10-19-2020, 01:01 PM
(10-19-2020, 11:50 AM)reki Wrote: Past weeks have been very harsh on me. Last weekend was my birthday and only a few people greeted me. What's worse is that I was suppose to invite a few people (college friends) but instead they went out because a friend had a scheduled proposal to which I didn't know because I wasn't invited.
It started last month when a friend also had a birthday and they didn't invite me. Their reasoning was I trying a new diet and they didn't invite me because I don't have anything to eat. I didn't push myself any longer and just think that at least I know that they are like this. I partly blame myself but over time I am trying to think of such thoughts and be the mature person. I guess this is pretty much a good time for me to move on and avoid having attachments to my friends and expecting them that they will be good friends for me.
Hope my next update will be a good one.
Time to find new friends bro!
My experience is that when there is a major growth and transformation (which I hope is happening for you now), we often have to leave some friends behind because they do not resonate with our new self. Same goes for partners often.
