07-31-2020, 04:36 PM
(07-31-2020, 04:12 PM)RTBoss Wrote: I pretty much lived by that list, but I didn't forget or deny the mystical side of life.
For the first 27/28 years of my life, I slept alone (save for the occasional one night stand or week-long girlfriend). I grew tired of that. I began to imagine sleeping next to someone, and even wrote out what I really wanted... A relationship with the perfect person for me, who would challenge me and help me grow as a person, but also be fearsomely loyal and loving - a person who I would love in return.
I read that statement every night in bed for some time. Next thing I know, I met my wife through circumstances outside of my direct control, but a natural extension of my best laid life plans. She fits the bill to my statement and visualizations to this day.
I still got everything I wanted on my list.
Stay-at-home dad, check.
Work-from-home, check.
Be my own boss, check.
So I make plans, and am careful as to what I visualize and set my intentions toward... Because in the end, I get what I put out there.
Keep up what good work, Dan.
That makes sense. I used to think that my destiny would sort itself out because I was 'special' or simply had something different from the rest of society. That attitude led to a ton of wasted time; I know now that I have to set myself apart through intent and actions.
I find that the more that I get geared into taking action, the more I've noticed a spiritual component to it as well.
I thought up this framework because I got frustrated with people expressing their desire to learn French, but never lift a finger to accomplish it. Or, a theoretical person wanting to start a business but doesn't even know what it takes. Hope this clarifies.
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