Stage 5, Day 19,
I recently realized that women, when things risk becoming intimate, sometimes do this shuffle between 'yes' and 'no lol'. It's a dynamic where they're using their consent as a game for their amusement. A women yesterday admitted to me that she enjoyed watching me get flustered by changing her mind about moving to second base.
Have you had this experience? I used to find it cute. Going through the logic of it, I realize that it's toxic and shitty behavior.
Disclaimer: This is clearly not the behavior that a woman in fear for her safety would do. 'No' has a completely different meaning in that situation.
Edit: I should add that she was doing it in a back and forth way, repeatedly. Not just once.
I recently realized that women, when things risk becoming intimate, sometimes do this shuffle between 'yes' and 'no lol'. It's a dynamic where they're using their consent as a game for their amusement. A women yesterday admitted to me that she enjoyed watching me get flustered by changing her mind about moving to second base.
Have you had this experience? I used to find it cute. Going through the logic of it, I realize that it's toxic and shitty behavior.
Disclaimer: This is clearly not the behavior that a woman in fear for her safety would do. 'No' has a completely different meaning in that situation.
Edit: I should add that she was doing it in a back and forth way, repeatedly. Not just once.
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