04-06-2020, 11:56 AM
Hi All, (DMSI 3.3.2 ongoing off-label application)
Day 1 ASRB2, Cycle #7
Well, last night was the last night of night-time listening of the sub for my wife and I. I had accidentally left it on repeat again. I believe it may have awakened us a little early this am before the alarm. Probably had time to run over 5 loops. This time it woke me more than it woke her. It seems that our night-time limit on the sub can't be over 4 loops (had not intended it, again it was a mistake).
During this past cycle of listening, neither of us noticed much of anything with regard to attention from others with the exception of my wife who had some attention from an androgynous young man, who was very complimentary with her a couple times which I mentioned before.
She has seemed more attracted to me and I have felt slightly more attracted to her. Energy levels have been good, until yesterday, but that might have been lack of sleep and early rising for work. The sex has been more energetic and in the case of this past week happened 4 days in a row (well, one of those days was a bj, and everything other than the bj is not too unusual). She has been coming to orgasm more quickly and having multiples more often, when not having multiples it is usually because the one was so colossal and she was just done. So, it continues to keep the sexual energy buoyed up. We'll be off of it till Friday now, so we'll see how that goes. There has also been little friction in spite of the fact that we are cooped up more than usual due to the California quarantine restrictions.
I would say at least some of the higher intensity should be attributed to the sub. It may also be the sub that has helped her sublimate her feelings of frustration and fear (of the quarantine destroying our investments and the possibility of retiring ever--not of the illness). She now seems able to consciously able to take those negative emotions and channel them into sex. This self-awareness is new since we began the sub. Thus a question for Shannon: Does this sound like something that DMSI 3.3.2 would bring about?
All-in-all, still loving the sub. Night-time listening is dicey, especially when accidentally put on an infinite loop. My head is not the clearest at bed time when I have to set it. I've only made the mistake 2 out of 8 times though and the other nights went quite well.
Overall, I would summarize the effects of the sub (now that we've been on it for 80 days) as raising sexual awareness (of both of us), increasing sexual intensity (during intimacy times), increased personal sexual confidence (e.g. I caught myself smirking playfully at a couple of attractive women that were walking their dog when our eyes met--I don't normally do this sort of think automatically) they both were looking at me as I drove by, by the way also. I think it has also improved the quality of sexual interactions and shortened foreplay spontaneously. The wife is not normally very spontaneously affectionate, but has taken to giving me playful slaps on the butt more often. Previously, she had only done something like this maybe once a year.... Her submissiveness seems unphased, but she is more active and interested in me and my pleasure than she has been in the past. Some of this is a natural development of being together for 40 years, but why so many moves forward in such a short time after so many years? I think that there is something going on there with the sub. Since beginning the sub she has gone down on me more frequently, particularly in the am, when I like it best and she likes it least. Plus, there have been at least three full blowjobs (that I remember) since beginning the sub while in the previous year there might have been one. This means she has been more uninhibited in her response to knowing what I want and what I like in spite of her own previous preferences. She is actually starting to develop a bit of a 'taste' for it, in the sense that she kind of looks forward to it and goes about it enthusiastically.
My confidence levels have been quite good. When the routine doubts pop up, I seem to have no trouble letting them slip away or disappear without missing a beat. I also notice that I notice women more, which is not unpleasant, but there has been nothing 'irresistible' even with very nice young ladies. If I do detect actual 'temptation to act' forming (as opposed to 'awareness of feeling desire') that will mean to me that I've run the sub long enough. I realize that from Shannon's point of view this is one of the key goals of the sub. I am loving all the effects, though, so far. YMMV
Will be interested in Shannon's thoughts.
Day 1 ASRB2, Cycle #7
Well, last night was the last night of night-time listening of the sub for my wife and I. I had accidentally left it on repeat again. I believe it may have awakened us a little early this am before the alarm. Probably had time to run over 5 loops. This time it woke me more than it woke her. It seems that our night-time limit on the sub can't be over 4 loops (had not intended it, again it was a mistake).
During this past cycle of listening, neither of us noticed much of anything with regard to attention from others with the exception of my wife who had some attention from an androgynous young man, who was very complimentary with her a couple times which I mentioned before.
She has seemed more attracted to me and I have felt slightly more attracted to her. Energy levels have been good, until yesterday, but that might have been lack of sleep and early rising for work. The sex has been more energetic and in the case of this past week happened 4 days in a row (well, one of those days was a bj, and everything other than the bj is not too unusual). She has been coming to orgasm more quickly and having multiples more often, when not having multiples it is usually because the one was so colossal and she was just done. So, it continues to keep the sexual energy buoyed up. We'll be off of it till Friday now, so we'll see how that goes. There has also been little friction in spite of the fact that we are cooped up more than usual due to the California quarantine restrictions.
I would say at least some of the higher intensity should be attributed to the sub. It may also be the sub that has helped her sublimate her feelings of frustration and fear (of the quarantine destroying our investments and the possibility of retiring ever--not of the illness). She now seems able to consciously able to take those negative emotions and channel them into sex. This self-awareness is new since we began the sub. Thus a question for Shannon: Does this sound like something that DMSI 3.3.2 would bring about?
All-in-all, still loving the sub. Night-time listening is dicey, especially when accidentally put on an infinite loop. My head is not the clearest at bed time when I have to set it. I've only made the mistake 2 out of 8 times though and the other nights went quite well.
Overall, I would summarize the effects of the sub (now that we've been on it for 80 days) as raising sexual awareness (of both of us), increasing sexual intensity (during intimacy times), increased personal sexual confidence (e.g. I caught myself smirking playfully at a couple of attractive women that were walking their dog when our eyes met--I don't normally do this sort of think automatically) they both were looking at me as I drove by, by the way also. I think it has also improved the quality of sexual interactions and shortened foreplay spontaneously. The wife is not normally very spontaneously affectionate, but has taken to giving me playful slaps on the butt more often. Previously, she had only done something like this maybe once a year.... Her submissiveness seems unphased, but she is more active and interested in me and my pleasure than she has been in the past. Some of this is a natural development of being together for 40 years, but why so many moves forward in such a short time after so many years? I think that there is something going on there with the sub. Since beginning the sub she has gone down on me more frequently, particularly in the am, when I like it best and she likes it least. Plus, there have been at least three full blowjobs (that I remember) since beginning the sub while in the previous year there might have been one. This means she has been more uninhibited in her response to knowing what I want and what I like in spite of her own previous preferences. She is actually starting to develop a bit of a 'taste' for it, in the sense that she kind of looks forward to it and goes about it enthusiastically.
My confidence levels have been quite good. When the routine doubts pop up, I seem to have no trouble letting them slip away or disappear without missing a beat. I also notice that I notice women more, which is not unpleasant, but there has been nothing 'irresistible' even with very nice young ladies. If I do detect actual 'temptation to act' forming (as opposed to 'awareness of feeling desire') that will mean to me that I've run the sub long enough. I realize that from Shannon's point of view this is one of the key goals of the sub. I am loving all the effects, though, so far. YMMV
Will be interested in Shannon's thoughts.
