03-03-2020, 12:23 PM
(03-02-2020, 11:06 AM)Shannon Wrote: I have been telling everyone that the only thing left to do with this sub is overcoming fear. Some of the guys using it and getting little to no results don't believe that. You are showing that I am right: in your case, there's no fear to get in the way of these things because it's your long time wife. Glad to have your experiences to compare to.
I would agree... the absence/reduction of 'fear' was one of the first things I noticed. Though I'm not sure I would use the word 'fear'-- it seems to have removed inhibitions and 'naturalized' new behaviors so that they felt more 'normal' and fun to be or my wife. Increased 'confidence' might also be a way of putting it. Reduction in 'anxiety' was also an effect. e.g. There are times when I would feel a little (unnecessary) anxiety when going into a romantic encounter (w/ my wife) that wasted energy and positive thought power. This has been minimized or eliminated since using the sub.
Which aspect of 'fear' are you targeting then? Outright 'fear' as in fear of rejection, etc. Anxiety (free-floating nervousness that really has no basis in reality and can be self-cycling), lack of confidence, or inhibitions about doing things you want to do, but maybe haven't done before or 'filters' that filter out impulses that are legit and fun...?
