(01-29-2020, 06:33 AM)Yous Wrote: I don´t see anything wrong in the masturbation, if having sex with someone is not bad this isn´t either (i never know if it´s either or neither here...) . What can be bad is the excess or not controlling it, but doing it sometimes before sleeping for example i think it could be even good.
If you are addicted or controlled by it or by porn, yes, try to not do it, but if you do it in al healthy way i don´t see any problem
The idea is that you want to contain your sexual energy and not wasting it on maturation but rather on creative endeavors and meeting girls. Also learning to relax in other ways than to be stuck with using sexual stimulation.