DMSI 3.3.2, OED, X124, PSEv3, etc.

[Shannon]

I warn people who are involved not to use DMSI in it's current form, and especially not to expose their significant others, because of not just what it is designed to do, but how it is designed to do that. The only way for this program to be truly safe for couples to use is if you resist it, or you don't use it. If you execute this program completely, both of you will end up having not just seriously interested others - multiple others each - show up, but they will be interested in ways that are not safe for committed relationships. Unless maybe you are a hell of a swinger.

So... by the time you see "danger signs", it may in some ways already be too late. That is why I warn against that.

I also warn against it because people get used to seeing version after version come out and it does not accomplish XYZ goal. They assume it never will, or never can, or that enough exposure will not change that.

If you're going to run it, I strongly recommend you run it, without exposing her.