CatMan, first, thank you for the nice wishes you gave me!
next, I can relate to what you say...
At some point, I was convinced that I did prefer having sex with someone with whom I was feeling a connection.
The ugly truth was that if things were going too fast, I knew that I would suffer from performance anxiety. I could possibly not be able to get it up and that would be among one of the most humiliating experience that can happen.
DMSI/SM3 did tremendously help to free me from all this.
That being said, you might have the same struggle that I did or maybe not. There is no wrong or right answers about what behavior/belief are correct.
I'll conclude by saying that as long as you are honest with yourself and keep an open mind to try new experiences in order to figure out what fits you best, you are going to be fine.
Have an excellent year 2020 CatMan!
next, I can relate to what you say...
At some point, I was convinced that I did prefer having sex with someone with whom I was feeling a connection.
The ugly truth was that if things were going too fast, I knew that I would suffer from performance anxiety. I could possibly not be able to get it up and that would be among one of the most humiliating experience that can happen.
DMSI/SM3 did tremendously help to free me from all this.
That being said, you might have the same struggle that I did or maybe not. There is no wrong or right answers about what behavior/belief are correct.
I'll conclude by saying that as long as you are honest with yourself and keep an open mind to try new experiences in order to figure out what fits you best, you are going to be fine.
Have an excellent year 2020 CatMan!
