UMS. Let’s get at it

[Shannon]

Bravo!  Amazing progress!  Congratulations!

I ran into another subconscious character as well. There’s a sad little boy in there crying because his mommy doesn’t love him. I actually felt tears try to rise for about two seconds, but I was at work so I had to say not here and not now. This is weird because I don’t cry. I had to tell him “sorry, but your mommy just isn’t capable of loving you the right way, she’s too messed up”. The only conciliation I could offer him was to show him the man that he was becoming. I can’t offer what he is missing. Perhaps someday my wife will be able to help, but she’s got her own crap to deal with.

I suggest that instead of just telling him "Mom can't love you, sorry,", you pick him up, set him on your lap and give him the love he needs and wants yourself.  She can't, but you can.