11-03-2019, 09:40 AM
(11-03-2019, 08:49 AM)Ale Wrote: Wow, I can really relate to almost everything you just wrote. And I guess from my last posts in my own UMS thread, I'm having a similar effect with the sub, surfacing all my fears and emotions around women, but specifically focused on one.
I'm not sure why but I feel that once I can overcome and heal this stuff, everything will just flow and goals will start to come my way. Hope it's the same for you
All my life I have valued relationships over financial goals. And actually, I dismissed financial goals most of my life. I always found value in building and nurturing relationships over anything else. It allowed me to be myself.
And yes, the money mindset will implement soon enough, yet I'm seeing UMS is rebuilding a foundation I had not thought important. When enough junk is cleared out, I know I'll dive into the money mindset and focus very easily. Yet that mindset is not disconnected though in any regards presently. I've been focusing on it for a few years now. Consistency is the key I've found. Me reading about financial stuff, watching movies occasionally, playing money games, reading money-related emails; all of this is helping me answer my "why?" I'm doing it, and it's led to dreaming about bigger possibilities. Without this foundation, I'd never have begun dreaming in the first place. Doing something--anything really--on a daily basis sets my mental focus. What I think on actually grows in me.
I'm finding that UMS is allowing me to change my perspective on what is really important to me, and that is the real gift.
I want to be FREE!
