10-27-2019, 06:55 PM
(10-27-2019, 03:33 PM)lano1106 Wrote: Concerning the girls you know that didn't want to hug. I have this to say. Perhaps before, they were seeing you as a brother.
If DMSI has started to change the way they see you. There might be an initial resistance between how they used to categorize you and how they start feeling the new you. This inner conflict may make them try to avoid physical contact to avoid amplifying their confusion.
I think that what you experienced may be seen as evidence that something is changing. imho, the real test will be with girls that don't know the old you at all and have zero expectations about how to behave around you...
keep going and don't worry!
That might well be it. People often have trouble changing how they see people they see on a regular basis. If they weren’t attracted for a long time, and now they suddenly start to be, it can confuse them. Us too sometimes.
