10-27-2019, 02:10 AM
(This post was last modified: 10-27-2019, 02:29 AM by Determined.)
Sounds like you need a paradigm shift.
Your whole second paragraph is just wrong for several reasons
1) You're in their frame e.g "Sucks to have that slipping away over time now". You're the one who gives validation, not them. By seeking physical contact, you're basically a doggy chasing a treat. Jumping through her hoops to get it. If you're stuck in her frame you're always losing. This paradigm needs to change.
2) I never continue with a girl if she gives me 3 No's that are adamant. Anything further is just folly.
3) They've already made their mind up about you long before DMSI 3.3. Their perceptions which they're projecting onto you is only going to entrap you and keep you as their puppet. Same for reason #2, If women start projecting crap on me I leave.
4) You're dealing with a group. They're obviously sharing their projections of you. To them when they see you it's like "oh no here's Catman again, I wonder what weird creepy thing he'll do this time to fit into my projection of him". Once again shifting your paradigm is the solution. When you stop fitting their frame, they'll do a double take.
The only known method to get women who've put you in the "NO" category is called the 'Gatsby Method" where a man disappears and undergoes a radical transformation so far beyond the old them, that the new them is attractive and appealing. This works by creating confusion in the recipient as they try to reconcile the you they have in their mind to the one they see in front of their eyes. As a byproduct of this, they're now open to new understandings of you. This never works if the man consciously chooses to do this to get a certain girl, rather it works when a man shifts his paradigm. By walking away and doing the above steps, you already become that man.
Hope this was somewhat insightful.
Your whole second paragraph is just wrong for several reasons
1) You're in their frame e.g "Sucks to have that slipping away over time now". You're the one who gives validation, not them. By seeking physical contact, you're basically a doggy chasing a treat. Jumping through her hoops to get it. If you're stuck in her frame you're always losing. This paradigm needs to change.
2) I never continue with a girl if she gives me 3 No's that are adamant. Anything further is just folly.
3) They've already made their mind up about you long before DMSI 3.3. Their perceptions which they're projecting onto you is only going to entrap you and keep you as their puppet. Same for reason #2, If women start projecting crap on me I leave.
4) You're dealing with a group. They're obviously sharing their projections of you. To them when they see you it's like "oh no here's Catman again, I wonder what weird creepy thing he'll do this time to fit into my projection of him". Once again shifting your paradigm is the solution. When you stop fitting their frame, they'll do a double take.
The only known method to get women who've put you in the "NO" category is called the 'Gatsby Method" where a man disappears and undergoes a radical transformation so far beyond the old them, that the new them is attractive and appealing. This works by creating confusion in the recipient as they try to reconcile the you they have in their mind to the one they see in front of their eyes. As a byproduct of this, they're now open to new understandings of you. This never works if the man consciously chooses to do this to get a certain girl, rather it works when a man shifts his paradigm. By walking away and doing the above steps, you already become that man.
Hope this was somewhat insightful.
