09-16-2019, 10:05 AM
ME: We finally have a version of FRM that kills my nervousness in job interviews.
I interviewed for a panel for a job today. I didn’t feel any anxiety at all. I used to every time, and it really got in the way. I was very energetic and personable, had a great answer for all their questions, and did a good job of presenting myself as the ideal candidate for the position which I am highly qualified for. I don’t know if I’m going to get the job or not, and I’m actually not worried about it. Something just came over me when the interview started. It felt very natural, but thinking back it was amazing.
I’m just really pleased with the improvement in my interviewing ability. Near crippling nervousness was the big barrier I had to having the career that I wanted. It’s prevented me from getting many jobs that would have been the start of my “real” career. Now that barrier has been broken, I can work on adjusting what I do and say in interviews until I get where I want to be. It’s a great thing wether or not I get this particular job.
WIFE: she tried to quit UMS. Her thinking was that now that she’s gotten a new job, she doesn’t need it anymore, and she was too tired to stay up and run it through headphones. I talked her into just running it with the speakers on her iPod while she went to sleep and shes doing that. This is definitely resistance. She actually got upset when I suggested that she keep running it. That tells me that her subconscious is at the point where it has to either fully execute or run away. It tried to make her run, but it didn’t work.
I interviewed for a panel for a job today. I didn’t feel any anxiety at all. I used to every time, and it really got in the way. I was very energetic and personable, had a great answer for all their questions, and did a good job of presenting myself as the ideal candidate for the position which I am highly qualified for. I don’t know if I’m going to get the job or not, and I’m actually not worried about it. Something just came over me when the interview started. It felt very natural, but thinking back it was amazing.
I’m just really pleased with the improvement in my interviewing ability. Near crippling nervousness was the big barrier I had to having the career that I wanted. It’s prevented me from getting many jobs that would have been the start of my “real” career. Now that barrier has been broken, I can work on adjusting what I do and say in interviews until I get where I want to be. It’s a great thing wether or not I get this particular job.
WIFE: she tried to quit UMS. Her thinking was that now that she’s gotten a new job, she doesn’t need it anymore, and she was too tired to stay up and run it through headphones. I talked her into just running it with the speakers on her iPod while she went to sleep and shes doing that. This is definitely resistance. She actually got upset when I suggested that she keep running it. That tells me that her subconscious is at the point where it has to either fully execute or run away. It tried to make her run, but it didn’t work.
