Stage 4, day 13:
In the last few days, I did chat with my 2 FWBs. I didn't for a while. I sensed interest in hooking with me still present even if we only meet very occasionally. It seems like the natural pace is about once per month.
What I like the most is that I find myself putting these girls very low in my priorities effortlessly and naturally. Dating/pickup conventional wisdom says that. but it is one thing to fake it and be affected when you don't obtain the reaction you want vs actually DGAF at all. I'm not sure if women are able to discern between both but they seem to do...
Friday night, I had to ask the mom of my daughter's friend if it was ok that the friend sleep over. but instead of texting the mom, I did text a girl that had the same name in my contact list that I haven't seen for many years. Back when I was seeing her, I had sexual interest in her but I have never slept with her. I started to flirt and play with her... exchanging messages... At first, I wasn't even sure myself who it was... No idea what the current flirt result will be... but again the point is that I am astonished myself about my nonchalence...
It take hours or days before I reply back. I can't help it... I just have more important stuff to care about... and I just don't care about them...
I somehow feel that her apparent spike in interest for me... is certainly in part by this nonchalance extreme non-neediness...
I have never felt needy with women... but right now, my behavior in that regard is on steroid... I'm bad much more than I have ever been... and this seems to have a positive impact on women interest for me.... It is very curious...
In the last few days, I did chat with my 2 FWBs. I didn't for a while. I sensed interest in hooking with me still present even if we only meet very occasionally. It seems like the natural pace is about once per month.
What I like the most is that I find myself putting these girls very low in my priorities effortlessly and naturally. Dating/pickup conventional wisdom says that. but it is one thing to fake it and be affected when you don't obtain the reaction you want vs actually DGAF at all. I'm not sure if women are able to discern between both but they seem to do...
Friday night, I had to ask the mom of my daughter's friend if it was ok that the friend sleep over. but instead of texting the mom, I did text a girl that had the same name in my contact list that I haven't seen for many years. Back when I was seeing her, I had sexual interest in her but I have never slept with her. I started to flirt and play with her... exchanging messages... At first, I wasn't even sure myself who it was... No idea what the current flirt result will be... but again the point is that I am astonished myself about my nonchalence...
It take hours or days before I reply back. I can't help it... I just have more important stuff to care about... and I just don't care about them...
I somehow feel that her apparent spike in interest for me... is certainly in part by this nonchalance extreme non-neediness...
I have never felt needy with women... but right now, my behavior in that regard is on steroid... I'm bad much more than I have ever been... and this seems to have a positive impact on women interest for me.... It is very curious...
