Stage 3, day 31:
I start to wonder if I become a jerk and/or an asshole. I met my 2 current FWBs last monday, had a good time with both of them (not a 3some. one at a time...) and I didn't even texted them back since then.
I have been crazy busy the whole week to my defense. OTOH, they didn't try to contact me neither... This is so much not how I used to be. I used be sensitive and text either the same day or the day after to tell them that I did enjoy my time with them.
It could be how it is to behave as you are the prize. If that is what is happening. I can tell you that it is effortless. I just have other things on my mind all the time.
1 day is remaining to stage 3. I guess that it is time to start evaluating the overall result of stage 3:
1. Not a ton of new partners but I got the highest number of simultaneous partners (3). What is stunning me, it is the stability of those casual relations.
In my past, they were extremely volatile and precarious. given that women have so many options nowadays, you really need to standout and provide something unique for them to stick around. I guess SM3 is making me able to deliver the sexual goods for women desiring to come back for more.
2. This kinda open up new opportunities for framing in a powerful way that I have never been in position to do before my interactions with women... not even sure that I would need to say it or if the women would instinctively perceive it but my frame would be something along the lines:
I already have plenty of good sex with many partners. The only way that I could consider adding another woman or replacing one is if I stumble into one that is even better. In which way would you qualify for that?
At least in my mind, in many ways, that frame is incredibly powerful. This give you instant social proof because many women crave you and it position you as the prize instead of chasing her... I suspect that something along those lines will be the main theme of stage 4...
To be followed...
I start to wonder if I become a jerk and/or an asshole. I met my 2 current FWBs last monday, had a good time with both of them (not a 3some. one at a time...) and I didn't even texted them back since then.
I have been crazy busy the whole week to my defense. OTOH, they didn't try to contact me neither... This is so much not how I used to be. I used be sensitive and text either the same day or the day after to tell them that I did enjoy my time with them.
It could be how it is to behave as you are the prize. If that is what is happening. I can tell you that it is effortless. I just have other things on my mind all the time.
1 day is remaining to stage 3. I guess that it is time to start evaluating the overall result of stage 3:
1. Not a ton of new partners but I got the highest number of simultaneous partners (3). What is stunning me, it is the stability of those casual relations.
In my past, they were extremely volatile and precarious. given that women have so many options nowadays, you really need to standout and provide something unique for them to stick around. I guess SM3 is making me able to deliver the sexual goods for women desiring to come back for more.
2. This kinda open up new opportunities for framing in a powerful way that I have never been in position to do before my interactions with women... not even sure that I would need to say it or if the women would instinctively perceive it but my frame would be something along the lines:
I already have plenty of good sex with many partners. The only way that I could consider adding another woman or replacing one is if I stumble into one that is even better. In which way would you qualify for that?
At least in my mind, in many ways, that frame is incredibly powerful. This give you instant social proof because many women crave you and it position you as the prize instead of chasing her... I suspect that something along those lines will be the main theme of stage 4...
To be followed...
