(08-11-2019, 08:43 PM)Mufasa Wrote: My biggest trigger here was with someone who will remain unnamed, so mistaken that he thinks making women more “comfortable” with him is a bad thing. He doesn’t need a subliminal, he needs KNOWLEDGE and EXPERIENCE. He needs to know WHY women feel comfortable and SAFE around men they find attractive - (something along the lines of: because they sense you are capable of being dangerous enough to protect them, yet you have it reigned in and under control). He needs to feel the fear and have the experience of overcoming it. He needs different priorities, to know what are truly attractive traits and commit to developing them. He needs to experience failure!
I rarely come to this part of the forum as usually it delves into things I have no interest in.
I'm thinking this is about me...I know the exact post this is referencing. It's also from several months ago, I'm surprised this is coming up now.
But, why did you "like" my comment, and even "rep" me for it near the end of last month...if I'm "mistaken"?
I haven't ran an "attraction" sub in a very long time, as it's clear they are nowhere near where they need to be in results. As a result, I don't have much interest anymore in discussing my background or issues with women at this point. It's been done a million times, and with someone who's knowledge of it is relevant to improve the program, Shannon. So I see no need to further waste my time going over the same topics over and over and over with others, who likely have their own issues which is why they are here too, muddying things.
I've "experienced" mountains of failure already...so I don't understand that part of the post. So much so, that for a long time now, I have low desire to truly go for women anymore, I just don't seem to bother as much now. I've written about this often.
Nobody wants a "magic pill". We are measuring the program based off SHANNON'S intended purpose for it. SHANNON'S! He says it is supposed to make women sexually attracted to us to the degree we are to them, and pursue us for sex. I think, just as I did way back when I first heard it, that it is a fantasy, it reminds me of those over the top AXE commercials years ago. But, I'm trying it out, giving it a chance, every time a new version comes out. I'm weighing it's success based off SHANNON'S words about it's intent. Measuring the sub by it's success in relation to the goal stated BY SHANNON, is realistic and reasonable. It is hardly expecting a "magic pill", just merely judging the sub in accordance to it's goal. Nobody "wants it to do it all for them", another annoying claim. But we DO expect it to do SOMETHING...otherwise...what exactly are people paying for?!
Hopefully this will be the end of this. I really have no desire to go any further with anything. I don't even really post anymore, for a very long time now. I generally don't find it an enjoyable experience anymore, I hate the big protracted arguments that often ensue for some reason. Last thing I want to do is get into a big fight, especially about a several months old post I wrote about a program I used months and months ago and have been off for a very long time. I'm confused as to why that post was called out now, after liking it and repping it. I hope it isn't some concern trolling...but I do hope this is the end of this.
Maybe the problem I had is in how this is presented, publicly like on a soapbox. That's why my first thoughts went to either a need to feel superior, or concern trolling. Maybe a PM would've been better if this was genuine concern.
Thank you for your time. Have a nice day.
