Day 14:
Today is my birthday... Nothing special to report except the flood of happy birth wishes coming from FB 'friends'.
I went during lunch time to the crossfit gym. So that way, it will be out of the way and have my whole afternoon/evening to spend with kids and gf.
Upon my entrance in the gym, a young lady (I have learned that she is a nurse. I love those women) immediately did open me. She took me for someone else by asking me how I do find the sport since I started coming... It didn't make any sense to me since I am a gym member since 3 years. Honestly, I think that it was the first time that I was seeing her. I did tease her with the fact that she must have made a mistake on the person because I'm bald and there is a lot of bald guys in the gym. We found out that it was the first time that we were meeting because I mostly go to the gym in the morning or the first class in the afternoon while she mostly come in the evening and/or during lunch time.
BTW, that is something that I love if you can do that. Most people that have a regular time to go at the gym. If you can afford to go at the gym around the clock, you are going to meet different people.
So, that was a cool exchange that did happen effortlessly. While I was talking to her, in my head, I was yes. I'm going to suggest that we do something outside the gym. I'm going propose her before leaving at the end of the class.
I didn't suggest. She was less friendly at the end of the class. I went see her and she quickly said it was nice meeting you see you next time. but I'll see her tomorrow evening at the gym first yoga class.
Lesson #1: If you have something to ask, do it while you are in a high point. Don't wait later...
Next, as I was leaving from the gym in my car, I did see a cute girl walking on the sidewalk. Opening my window and starting to flirt with her did cross my mind but I didn't (Same thing did happen yesterday). To me, doing that is kinda creepy... But sometime, you see that in some reality based porn clips. Something like fun school bus or things like that. Despite not being sure that it is a good idea... I should at least try once or few times to see if it is a good idea or not... If not immediately a good idea... maybe with some tweaking such as parking a little bit ahead and get out of my car to encounter the lady would be cooler.
After that, I did stop at a coffee shop to buy a frozen limonade. I did spot a cute girl. I told to myself. Hey after I have my limonade, I'm going to sit nearby and start talking to her. As I was in line to order, I saw her leaving. Damn!
Lesson #2: If you see someone that you want to approach. You better do it immediately because you might lose the chance to meet that person.
Another casual observation that I did while I was in the coffee shop is this. Your positioning is very important. One thing that I would hate to do is to start chasing women. During my stay, I did see 3 interesting women coming in. buy some drink and leave. If instead of being on a table, I would have been close to the entrance. I could have smiled at them. Make some funny cocky comments to make them giggle and open them some more on their way out.
Overall, I feel like I'm doing progress at a turtle's pace but as long as I'm learning from my mistakes, I guess we can say that the whole experimentation is beneficial...
Today is my birthday... Nothing special to report except the flood of happy birth wishes coming from FB 'friends'.
I went during lunch time to the crossfit gym. So that way, it will be out of the way and have my whole afternoon/evening to spend with kids and gf.
Upon my entrance in the gym, a young lady (I have learned that she is a nurse. I love those women) immediately did open me. She took me for someone else by asking me how I do find the sport since I started coming... It didn't make any sense to me since I am a gym member since 3 years. Honestly, I think that it was the first time that I was seeing her. I did tease her with the fact that she must have made a mistake on the person because I'm bald and there is a lot of bald guys in the gym. We found out that it was the first time that we were meeting because I mostly go to the gym in the morning or the first class in the afternoon while she mostly come in the evening and/or during lunch time.
BTW, that is something that I love if you can do that. Most people that have a regular time to go at the gym. If you can afford to go at the gym around the clock, you are going to meet different people.
So, that was a cool exchange that did happen effortlessly. While I was talking to her, in my head, I was yes. I'm going to suggest that we do something outside the gym. I'm going propose her before leaving at the end of the class.
I didn't suggest. She was less friendly at the end of the class. I went see her and she quickly said it was nice meeting you see you next time. but I'll see her tomorrow evening at the gym first yoga class.
Lesson #1: If you have something to ask, do it while you are in a high point. Don't wait later...
Next, as I was leaving from the gym in my car, I did see a cute girl walking on the sidewalk. Opening my window and starting to flirt with her did cross my mind but I didn't (Same thing did happen yesterday). To me, doing that is kinda creepy... But sometime, you see that in some reality based porn clips. Something like fun school bus or things like that. Despite not being sure that it is a good idea... I should at least try once or few times to see if it is a good idea or not... If not immediately a good idea... maybe with some tweaking such as parking a little bit ahead and get out of my car to encounter the lady would be cooler.
After that, I did stop at a coffee shop to buy a frozen limonade. I did spot a cute girl. I told to myself. Hey after I have my limonade, I'm going to sit nearby and start talking to her. As I was in line to order, I saw her leaving. Damn!
Lesson #2: If you see someone that you want to approach. You better do it immediately because you might lose the chance to meet that person.
Another casual observation that I did while I was in the coffee shop is this. Your positioning is very important. One thing that I would hate to do is to start chasing women. During my stay, I did see 3 interesting women coming in. buy some drink and leave. If instead of being on a table, I would have been close to the entrance. I could have smiled at them. Make some funny cocky comments to make them giggle and open them some more on their way out.
Overall, I feel like I'm doing progress at a turtle's pace but as long as I'm learning from my mistakes, I guess we can say that the whole experimentation is beneficial...
