I was at the gym this afternoon. 4 women, 4 men. I was too conscious of the fact that I'm currently running SM3 to make a move on the girls. Like forcing something to happen. If something happens with one of the girl, I want it to happen organically and naturally.
Therefore, when I did arrive few minutes before the start of the class, there was 2 gatherings. The men were talking together and women were together. Despite one of the girls did smile at me (I did smile back at her), I went see the boys.
The workout consisted basically rowing for 30 mins. I had a hot girl on my left... Definitely not very talkative. Maybe too early to feel a difference between pre-SM and now but if there was something different, I would say that is how I frame things. Prior, I would have concluded that she wasn't interested but now I would say more that she is just shy and needs to be opened up slowly.
I ended up speaking a bit to all girls. In crossfit, one tradition is punch knuckles and say 'good job' to each other to congratulate everyone to have worked out hard. The coach systematically does it all the time. Sometime some zealous guys/girls will go see everyone else to do the knuckle punch ritual. I don't... I feel like it is too much signaling 'hey like me'. I do it with people around me who worked out beside me but I won't go see everyone like the coaches do.
So the observation is that the 2 farthest girls from me came to me to congratulate me while I was laying on the ground exhausted catching me breath. I feel like they did more than usual to socialize with me...
It is small details but again strange coincidence...
Beside that... I wanted to tease the yesterday's girl by sending her a text msg during the afternoon. Usually, this is a winning move. I think she did appreciate but she did cut the exchange pretty fast saying that she couldn't talk and was busy. I then left her alone. I thought that I would her back from her later in the evening but it didn't happen. I'll leave her few days to ping me back before checking with her if we follow up with our plan to meet sometime next week.
It strike me odd that she was super explicit with me last night to very distant today... Who knows... Maybe buyer's remorse... To be continued...
Therefore, when I did arrive few minutes before the start of the class, there was 2 gatherings. The men were talking together and women were together. Despite one of the girls did smile at me (I did smile back at her), I went see the boys.
The workout consisted basically rowing for 30 mins. I had a hot girl on my left... Definitely not very talkative. Maybe too early to feel a difference between pre-SM and now but if there was something different, I would say that is how I frame things. Prior, I would have concluded that she wasn't interested but now I would say more that she is just shy and needs to be opened up slowly.
I ended up speaking a bit to all girls. In crossfit, one tradition is punch knuckles and say 'good job' to each other to congratulate everyone to have worked out hard. The coach systematically does it all the time. Sometime some zealous guys/girls will go see everyone else to do the knuckle punch ritual. I don't... I feel like it is too much signaling 'hey like me'. I do it with people around me who worked out beside me but I won't go see everyone like the coaches do.
So the observation is that the 2 farthest girls from me came to me to congratulate me while I was laying on the ground exhausted catching me breath. I feel like they did more than usual to socialize with me...
It is small details but again strange coincidence...
Beside that... I wanted to tease the yesterday's girl by sending her a text msg during the afternoon. Usually, this is a winning move. I think she did appreciate but she did cut the exchange pretty fast saying that she couldn't talk and was busy. I then left her alone. I thought that I would her back from her later in the evening but it didn't happen. I'll leave her few days to ping me back before checking with her if we follow up with our plan to meet sometime next week.
It strike me odd that she was super explicit with me last night to very distant today... Who knows... Maybe buyer's remorse... To be continued...
