this does not relate to DMSI per say as it is more like a general status update of my life.
I got sick pretty much for the whole week. To give you an idea, I did not go to the gym a single time. It has to be serious for me to skip.
It seems like I'm going to split out from my partner. For good reasons, I was unhappy with something he did. In short, while I'm taking care of the day to day operation which is basically a 7 days a week occupation (fortunately. Not necessarily 8 hours every day... but still), my partner effort comes more in burst and while outside the burst he can pretty much have a good life (he is travelling in the Philippine right now where he met his current gf and I'm seeing the fun time he has overthere in FB).
Bottomline, in the last few weeks, he got only 2 simple tasks to do and he did a pretty sloppy job at it costing us possibly a business opportunity. In the last few days, I realised that instead of taking responsability, he was interpreting what people were saying or doing in a way that was providing him alibis to put the less possible amount of effort in his tasks.
I calmly pointed out the facts to my partner and I was expecting/hoping that he would acknowledge his fault and tell me that he would correct the behavior. No, instead of that, he did put the blame on me, on others... anything but himself... At each reason, he was providing, I was deconstructing his logic to point out that he was full of shit. Needless to say that it kinda degenerated.... If there is something that I cannot tolerate around me, it is people who aren't taking responsibilities. In my experience, when someone start putting the blame for his failures to anything else except himself, nothing good can come out from dealing with that person... They are set to disapoint...
He hasn't always been like that but people are changing and I wasn't feeling that I was partnered with a winner anymore... I'm pretty much unforgivable on that point as when my mother passed away only days before my product launch last fall that didn't stop me from delivering my professional commitments to my partner and affiliates. So when someone tells me that he will do something and fail to do it. The last thing that I want to hear is a reason about why he couldn't do it. I expect others and myself to either do what is required to respect the commitment or accept the failure as being their fault.
So last message that I sent him, I basically told him to leave me alone for some time because I had to calm down before discussing any further collaborative project with him... He took that as a split business demand and he told: Ok calm down and when ready lets negotiate the split.
This took me by surprise... but the more I think about it... The more it makes sense... BUT... this might change my subliminal program planned schedule... Instead of doing SM3 next, I might go to BASE instead due to the current situation...
We will see...
I got sick pretty much for the whole week. To give you an idea, I did not go to the gym a single time. It has to be serious for me to skip.
It seems like I'm going to split out from my partner. For good reasons, I was unhappy with something he did. In short, while I'm taking care of the day to day operation which is basically a 7 days a week occupation (fortunately. Not necessarily 8 hours every day... but still), my partner effort comes more in burst and while outside the burst he can pretty much have a good life (he is travelling in the Philippine right now where he met his current gf and I'm seeing the fun time he has overthere in FB).
Bottomline, in the last few weeks, he got only 2 simple tasks to do and he did a pretty sloppy job at it costing us possibly a business opportunity. In the last few days, I realised that instead of taking responsability, he was interpreting what people were saying or doing in a way that was providing him alibis to put the less possible amount of effort in his tasks.
I calmly pointed out the facts to my partner and I was expecting/hoping that he would acknowledge his fault and tell me that he would correct the behavior. No, instead of that, he did put the blame on me, on others... anything but himself... At each reason, he was providing, I was deconstructing his logic to point out that he was full of shit. Needless to say that it kinda degenerated.... If there is something that I cannot tolerate around me, it is people who aren't taking responsibilities. In my experience, when someone start putting the blame for his failures to anything else except himself, nothing good can come out from dealing with that person... They are set to disapoint...
He hasn't always been like that but people are changing and I wasn't feeling that I was partnered with a winner anymore... I'm pretty much unforgivable on that point as when my mother passed away only days before my product launch last fall that didn't stop me from delivering my professional commitments to my partner and affiliates. So when someone tells me that he will do something and fail to do it. The last thing that I want to hear is a reason about why he couldn't do it. I expect others and myself to either do what is required to respect the commitment or accept the failure as being their fault.
So last message that I sent him, I basically told him to leave me alone for some time because I had to calm down before discussing any further collaborative project with him... He took that as a split business demand and he told: Ok calm down and when ready lets negotiate the split.
This took me by surprise... but the more I think about it... The more it makes sense... BUT... this might change my subliminal program planned schedule... Instead of doing SM3 next, I might go to BASE instead due to the current situation...
We will see...
