04-08-2019, 08:06 AM
My FWB is playing the indifference game. Last time that we communicated, the vibe was good. She seemed interesting in seeing me this week. She did seemed to be wanting to send me some pics of her but I haven't heard back from her since last Tuesday.
So, it tells me one or 2 things. 1. She is playing a game so that the frame becomes me chasing her (not interested in that) or she is submissive and timid and she depends on me taking all the initiatives or she is not that interested (but that didn't show at all when we last met) or maybe she is scared of what she herself feels torward me...
Actually, I thought it was one or 2 things but it could be many many things. Bottomline, idk.
One thing that I know for sure is that I don't want to buy the frame where I am the one chasing her. I want the frame to be the opposite or at least we put as much effort equally to see each other.
The best way to describe how I am now feeling torward her is: I'm interested and at the same time indifferent...
Lets move on and see if she is going to put herself out there and communicate with me...
So, it tells me one or 2 things. 1. She is playing a game so that the frame becomes me chasing her (not interested in that) or she is submissive and timid and she depends on me taking all the initiatives or she is not that interested (but that didn't show at all when we last met) or maybe she is scared of what she herself feels torward me...
Actually, I thought it was one or 2 things but it could be many many things. Bottomline, idk.
One thing that I know for sure is that I don't want to buy the frame where I am the one chasing her. I want the frame to be the opposite or at least we put as much effort equally to see each other.
The best way to describe how I am now feeling torward her is: I'm interested and at the same time indifferent...
Lets move on and see if she is going to put herself out there and communicate with me...
