03-25-2019, 11:36 AM
03-14-19:
There is a woman that has been nice with me the last few times that I have met her at the crossfit gym in the last 2-3 weeks. She is not the hottest woman out there... but enough hot for me to imagine her naked and having sex with her. Today, she did volunteer a lot of information about her personal life kinda hinting that she could be available and interested in some casual sex affair. On our way out, we did leave 'accidentally' at the same time. We did continue know each other in the parking... I left my business card offering to go take a coffee or a drink to continue this chat.
I guess it is not in the bag yet but I have a good feeling... In retrospect, it is like she has choosen me... let herself available to me and all I have to do is lead and move things forward...
I went in a bar like I use to do on Thursday once every 2 weeks. I did experiment with my flirting a bit... I wanted to play with Mode One aka direct approach. First attempt didn't work so well.
I said: I want to meet you real quick. My name is XYZ. What is your?
She gave me a name and did laugh at the same time... I could even not be sure if she gave a real name or only gave me some BS answer...
Next, I said: I have an intuition about you... (My intuition was that she was a curious person)...
but the gimmick is... This is said for the purpose of creating curiosity which didn't happen...
She just kept talking with the other person...
So I just said: I think that my intuition is wrong. good bye and I left.
Another woman was absolutly hot and sexy... I went see her and told her that she did remind me someone...
She said thx but I don't what to say to that..
I said: well, you could ask me who you remind me?
She did
and I said Megan Fox. Yes. She was that hot... She was really flattered and did small talk a little bit... I was not really hitting on her... When I saw her.. She did really made me think about Megan Fox. I just wanted make her feel good and not want anything else in exchange. Free compliment only.
Next at the bar, I met a friend and he did introduce me a woman that he has just met... He is polyamorous and mostly only for casual relations only and he is upfront about this right of the bat when he meet a new woman. So what I did didn't spoil anything... It was his woman for tonight and I didn't want to make a move on her girl but I did propose her something to her when I left them. I said goodbye to my friend and told this to the girl. This is totally Mode One style. ARC would be proud of me if he would have seen me: that would be cool to meet to exchange orgasms together sometime in the next 2-3 weeks. Does that sound like a good idea?
Her:Yes
right there, I was already surprise to see that it worked so well... Then I dropped the ball and stop leading by asking: How do we do to set that up?
To which she replied: You know what, lets wait in 2 weeks when we meet again here...
I then suggested that if she wanted to find me on FB, she could search for me on FB...
but in retrospect, that was weak... She did flip the frame by getting back the control... You never know but, nah... I won't hear back from that girl...
Just if I added that I really like woman that do some effort to reach me... That could been some challenge... right there...
A much better way would have been to say:
Great. Which day is good for you?
no problem. is your phone # starts with XYZ (my local area code)?
There is a woman that has been nice with me the last few times that I have met her at the crossfit gym in the last 2-3 weeks. She is not the hottest woman out there... but enough hot for me to imagine her naked and having sex with her. Today, she did volunteer a lot of information about her personal life kinda hinting that she could be available and interested in some casual sex affair. On our way out, we did leave 'accidentally' at the same time. We did continue know each other in the parking... I left my business card offering to go take a coffee or a drink to continue this chat.
I guess it is not in the bag yet but I have a good feeling... In retrospect, it is like she has choosen me... let herself available to me and all I have to do is lead and move things forward...
I went in a bar like I use to do on Thursday once every 2 weeks. I did experiment with my flirting a bit... I wanted to play with Mode One aka direct approach. First attempt didn't work so well.
I said: I want to meet you real quick. My name is XYZ. What is your?
She gave me a name and did laugh at the same time... I could even not be sure if she gave a real name or only gave me some BS answer...
Next, I said: I have an intuition about you... (My intuition was that she was a curious person)...
but the gimmick is... This is said for the purpose of creating curiosity which didn't happen...
She just kept talking with the other person...
So I just said: I think that my intuition is wrong. good bye and I left.
Another woman was absolutly hot and sexy... I went see her and told her that she did remind me someone...
She said thx but I don't what to say to that..
I said: well, you could ask me who you remind me?
She did
and I said Megan Fox. Yes. She was that hot... She was really flattered and did small talk a little bit... I was not really hitting on her... When I saw her.. She did really made me think about Megan Fox. I just wanted make her feel good and not want anything else in exchange. Free compliment only.
Next at the bar, I met a friend and he did introduce me a woman that he has just met... He is polyamorous and mostly only for casual relations only and he is upfront about this right of the bat when he meet a new woman. So what I did didn't spoil anything... It was his woman for tonight and I didn't want to make a move on her girl but I did propose her something to her when I left them. I said goodbye to my friend and told this to the girl. This is totally Mode One style. ARC would be proud of me if he would have seen me: that would be cool to meet to exchange orgasms together sometime in the next 2-3 weeks. Does that sound like a good idea?
Her:Yes
right there, I was already surprise to see that it worked so well... Then I dropped the ball and stop leading by asking: How do we do to set that up?
To which she replied: You know what, lets wait in 2 weeks when we meet again here...
I then suggested that if she wanted to find me on FB, she could search for me on FB...
but in retrospect, that was weak... She did flip the frame by getting back the control... You never know but, nah... I won't hear back from that girl...
Just if I added that I really like woman that do some effort to reach me... That could been some challenge... right there...
A much better way would have been to say:
Great. Which day is good for you?
no problem. is your phone # starts with XYZ (my local area code)?
