03-17-2019, 07:14 AM
(03-17-2019, 12:09 AM)lokko Wrote: You just need to chill the F out, and live life day by day. You are probably thinking about not achieving what you had set out for yourself a long time ago, and probably thinking about what the future holds. Keep calm and focus on today for a little while. Let go of everything, and live in right now. Sometimes you have to go with the flow, you can’t just control
Everything. Think of your life as if you are on a wave and it’s taking you in all sorts of directions while you are floating on it, but for once you are not trying to control where it’s going. You just let it go where it wants, and when it does go to good or bad parts, you let it, without fear, anxiousness, or worry. Then when that tide slows down and the waves lose it’s strength, it’s time for you to be in control again.
I understand what you're getting at, but I'm hesitant. Going with the flow in life has caused me more trouble than it's benefitted me. I've actually been trying to break away from that mentality as I find it too passive and opens up a lot of possibilities for complacency.
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