03-05-2019, 01:37 AM
Things are starting to turn in my favor again.
Day 34
Hung out with my main date. Went for yoga classes, dinner then sex. I hadn't had sex for two weeks because I had ingrown hair on my d*ck after shaving. It was frustrating not to be able to have sex but it healed and today it was really intense. The hot yoga prior to this helped too, we were both more relaxed and she was able to last longer. Usually I last longer than her because she gets sore once it passes more than 15 minutes but this time we banged it out for at least 20. I felt such deep satisfaction from the sex. It's been exactly a year since I met her. We reaffirmed our liking for each other and we both want to continue this.
Day 35
So things are going well with existing females but it hasn't with new ones, not for the past 2-3 weeks. The trend continued today. I met a girl off Tinder. Quite attractive. Things were going well, physical and verbal escalation were going well but she resisted hard when I pulled. I's the usual ASD, she doesn't want to do it on the first day etc. I was pissed and just left her there.
I spent a long time being pissed about it. I was so pissed I started asking a girl on Tinder (who turned out to be conservative) what about my profile that makes it a magnet for conservative girls. She told me my profile gave her the mature cute guy feel rather than typical fkboy look. She narrowed it down to the self description. I always thought my pictures should do the heavy lifting and I should write something safe in the bio so it doesn't become too crass and turn off the DTF ones too. But apparently it's giving off the provider vibe.
With that insight, I thanked her and went to work. I found a profile and personalized it. It's basically quite explicit and sexual but saying it in a funny and calibrated way. The idea is to weed out the conservative ones. I don't mind getting less matches if they're fast moving. I've always thought the proper way to do it is with a good shirtless picture because imagery is more powerful than words, but while the picture isn't ready yet why not try doing it with the bio? I showed the bio to my main date and she said it's too explicit and she would never swipe right on that. It's a little worrying because she's also a fast moving girl and it turned her off, but I decided to try it.
So I put on that bio and did my usual Sunday night Tinder boost. Surprisingly I only got slightly less matches than usual. More surprisingly, one girl opened me. After passing my open minded test, she number closed me without asking. I asked her out for drinks the next day and she actually asked me to go over to her place. It's really far though so I got her to come out instead.
Day 36
Met her. No surprises here. Banged her easily.
So a good start to the new profile. We'll see how it fares in the long run but a bang the day after I used it is promising indeed. As I banged her I was mentally facepalming myself, I should have done this ages ago. I was also happy today because she was girl #50. Still far from 100 but I never thought I'd make it this far.
Day 34
Hung out with my main date. Went for yoga classes, dinner then sex. I hadn't had sex for two weeks because I had ingrown hair on my d*ck after shaving. It was frustrating not to be able to have sex but it healed and today it was really intense. The hot yoga prior to this helped too, we were both more relaxed and she was able to last longer. Usually I last longer than her because she gets sore once it passes more than 15 minutes but this time we banged it out for at least 20. I felt such deep satisfaction from the sex. It's been exactly a year since I met her. We reaffirmed our liking for each other and we both want to continue this.
Day 35
So things are going well with existing females but it hasn't with new ones, not for the past 2-3 weeks. The trend continued today. I met a girl off Tinder. Quite attractive. Things were going well, physical and verbal escalation were going well but she resisted hard when I pulled. I's the usual ASD, she doesn't want to do it on the first day etc. I was pissed and just left her there.
I spent a long time being pissed about it. I was so pissed I started asking a girl on Tinder (who turned out to be conservative) what about my profile that makes it a magnet for conservative girls. She told me my profile gave her the mature cute guy feel rather than typical fkboy look. She narrowed it down to the self description. I always thought my pictures should do the heavy lifting and I should write something safe in the bio so it doesn't become too crass and turn off the DTF ones too. But apparently it's giving off the provider vibe.
With that insight, I thanked her and went to work. I found a profile and personalized it. It's basically quite explicit and sexual but saying it in a funny and calibrated way. The idea is to weed out the conservative ones. I don't mind getting less matches if they're fast moving. I've always thought the proper way to do it is with a good shirtless picture because imagery is more powerful than words, but while the picture isn't ready yet why not try doing it with the bio? I showed the bio to my main date and she said it's too explicit and she would never swipe right on that. It's a little worrying because she's also a fast moving girl and it turned her off, but I decided to try it.
So I put on that bio and did my usual Sunday night Tinder boost. Surprisingly I only got slightly less matches than usual. More surprisingly, one girl opened me. After passing my open minded test, she number closed me without asking. I asked her out for drinks the next day and she actually asked me to go over to her place. It's really far though so I got her to come out instead.
Day 36
Met her. No surprises here. Banged her easily.
So a good start to the new profile. We'll see how it fares in the long run but a bang the day after I used it is promising indeed. As I banged her I was mentally facepalming myself, I should have done this ages ago. I was also happy today because she was girl #50. Still far from 100 but I never thought I'd make it this far.
