05-05-2012, 01:42 PM
thanks guys-while it certainly is a success on one hand-I have to keep up some really strong conscious boundaries with some of these woman..my inclination is actually to give them everything they want-but that would make the rest of my life fall apart. New levels..different issues haha-
@smash-thanks man-I feel grateful your inspired. Everything came together when I just stopped waiting and starting believing NOW-stories+SM helped obviously..it was like tuning into the place where I already existed at that level..and holding to it-doing whatever-to hold to it with whatever else happened in my life.
At the same time-I started to get off my butt and do all the practical steps.
Getting a loan to get personal trainers certification
Being in the process of taking the courses to get certified
Getting back into my passion of improving vertical jump and creating my own training.
Finding a way to do an extra sports class at the school I teach at instead of just robotics.
The most important step that was the hardest-letting go of certain friends-realizing to hang with them so consistently was really holding me back.
My formula
Its a little paradoxical-Create two visions-
one of the Ideal you and world you want to live in- envisioning being there ALREADY, its perfection-gratitude and ridiculous abundance/happiness-waterfall woman effect etc-all having-having-having-
One naturally starts acting and coming from that place more and more consistently -cause your feeling it-you've already won the game.
the other the vision of how to practically realize that success based on the freedom of choosing who you want to be in life (Jed Mckenna author has helped with that)
Success for Ideal vision=Taking the time to feel/affirm/visualize Ideal (SUBS!!)
success for vision 2=ANY action towards the ideal with full commitment(especially feeling fear or less than perfect and doing something anyway).
When the two start operating at the same time-success is fairly inevitable. I'd sum it up as figure out Ideal life (Must be positive and adding value through self interest/value=something positive to others)-Do whatever it takes to tune into the place where Ideal life already exists (You have it! Your living it!)-take passion and heart of living that ideal life and follow that feeling to create game plan/practical steps towards reaching it.
All I can say is things are changing rapidly for the better and my ideals and clarity on what I want is changing as well-but this formula seems pretty consistent for me-its nothing new-just my synthesis of what has worked best for me.
If anyone does add this to their life in any way-and has breakthroughs, synchronicity, sudden and positive changes in results or disposition-pm and let me know what worked! I want to really keep learning, implementing, and distilling down the fine points here for myself and ultimately as an ebook.
@smash-thanks man-I feel grateful your inspired. Everything came together when I just stopped waiting and starting believing NOW-stories+SM helped obviously..it was like tuning into the place where I already existed at that level..and holding to it-doing whatever-to hold to it with whatever else happened in my life.
At the same time-I started to get off my butt and do all the practical steps.
Getting a loan to get personal trainers certification
Being in the process of taking the courses to get certified
Getting back into my passion of improving vertical jump and creating my own training.
Finding a way to do an extra sports class at the school I teach at instead of just robotics.
The most important step that was the hardest-letting go of certain friends-realizing to hang with them so consistently was really holding me back.
My formula
Its a little paradoxical-Create two visions-
one of the Ideal you and world you want to live in- envisioning being there ALREADY, its perfection-gratitude and ridiculous abundance/happiness-waterfall woman effect etc-all having-having-having-
One naturally starts acting and coming from that place more and more consistently -cause your feeling it-you've already won the game.
the other the vision of how to practically realize that success based on the freedom of choosing who you want to be in life (Jed Mckenna author has helped with that)
Success for Ideal vision=Taking the time to feel/affirm/visualize Ideal (SUBS!!)
success for vision 2=ANY action towards the ideal with full commitment(especially feeling fear or less than perfect and doing something anyway).
When the two start operating at the same time-success is fairly inevitable. I'd sum it up as figure out Ideal life (Must be positive and adding value through self interest/value=something positive to others)-Do whatever it takes to tune into the place where Ideal life already exists (You have it! Your living it!)-take passion and heart of living that ideal life and follow that feeling to create game plan/practical steps towards reaching it.
All I can say is things are changing rapidly for the better and my ideals and clarity on what I want is changing as well-but this formula seems pretty consistent for me-its nothing new-just my synthesis of what has worked best for me.
If anyone does add this to their life in any way-and has breakthroughs, synchronicity, sudden and positive changes in results or disposition-pm and let me know what worked! I want to really keep learning, implementing, and distilling down the fine points here for myself and ultimately as an ebook.
1. There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.
2. A thinker sees his own actions as experiments and questions... Success and failure are for him answers above all.
3. I would not know what the spirit of a philosopher might wish more then to be than a good dancer.-F.N.
2. A thinker sees his own actions as experiments and questions... Success and failure are for him answers above all.
3. I would not know what the spirit of a philosopher might wish more then to be than a good dancer.-F.N.
